Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
Last evening, a Grab driver was hitting on me. He asked for my age, to which I replied, “A woman’s age is always a secret.” I already knew where that question was heading and, sure enough, he followed up by asking if I was single.
I said yes.
He then proceeded to guess my age at 30. I smiled and said, “MasyaAllah.” Quite frankly, I have no idea how he guessed me that young, especially considering I’d barely slept for the past 4 days.
It also explains why the lady at the airline gate kept looking back and forth between my business class ticket and my passport multiple times, probably trying to figure out my age. 😬
Thankfully, I managed to tiptoe around the whole single topic and somehow manoeuvre the conversation into politics. Always the safer option. Haha 😛
The neurodivergent ick when you realize mid-convo that correcting them is pointless because they'd need self-awareness and emotional intelligence to even process that they're wrong.
In relationships, if you find yourself want to take more than you give, it’s usually not love it could be attraction, possessiveness, or a desire that rises and fades.
But when you feel the need to give more than you take, that’s closer to love because love is about giving, compassion, and a kind of faith that grows rather than diminishes.
And that's the lesson! 🩵
في العلاقات .. لما تلاقي نفسك عايز تاخد أكتر ماتعطي ف
غالباً ده مش حب .. لكن ممكن يكون إعجاب أو حب إمتلاك أو رغبة تزيد وتنقص .. إنما لما تلاقي نفسك محتاج تعطي أكتر ماتاخد ف ده غالباً حُب .. لأن الحب إسم و له صفات ملائكية علي الأرض منها إحساس العطاء .
.والرحمة و إيمان يزيد ولاينقص
🩵. نقطة و إنتهت الحكمة
If you're not happy with what you are dealing with, don't be afraid to look for what is acceptable. After your imane, to respect and be respected comes first, before any other consideration.
Find your tribe. No matter how long it takes, it'll happen biithnillah.
Have a fantastic learning day insha'Allah!!!!
Women, stop thinking your sons will be monsters just because you succumb to feminist ideology.
We should all be concerned about how girls are being taught, who are currently being indoctrinated just as these mothers are succumbing to destructive feminist ideology.
For years, society has been told that women are the oppressed gender and men are the privileged ones.
Then explain this.
72% of suicide victims are men.
When women face a problem, campaigns are launched, laws are strengthened, and the entire system rallies behind them.
When men break under family disputes, false allegations, emotional abuse, financial pressure, and social isolation, they are told to "man up."
83,713 married men died by suicide in a single year.
Yet the conversation remains centered on women.
A society obsessed with protecting women while ignoring dying men is not practicing equality.
It is practicing discrimination.
Men don't need more lectures about privilege.
They need justice, recognition, and a system that finally starts caring whether they live or d!e.
To step confidently into the future, we need to clear up any unfinished business from our past...