Psychology & Neurodiversity

It costs you nothing to respect, cruelty cost somebody everything.
So mind what you say always.

Mental health isn't "pagalpan." Asking for help is not shameful. Silence is what's expensive.

https://t.me/Islamsobhhie

https://t.me/Islamsobhhie

People. When I write I dont do it for social expiriment. But I cant help it. The reply's i get from some (man) subhan'allah demonstrate the words of my posts somehow beautifully in practise.

I just cant help it 😆

One of the superpowers is being able to mislead people just by the own prejudices they (will) have of you.

They think you dumb, let them.
They think you have no manners, let them.
They think you not educated, let them.
They think you not strong, let them.
They think you dont know the truth, let them.
They think you not muslim, let them.
They think you insecure, let them.

For it, those prejudices can give you that kind of privilige to not only show them their sickness but also teach them to be cautious with it in the future.

"Don't trust him/her, he/she is on all the apps! It's clear he/she is fooling around."

"But you're on all the apps too 🤨"

"I'm only on them to protect myself against these playaaas."

"What if he/she is on it for the same reason?"

Moral: We judge ourselves by our intentions while judging others by their behavior. We give ourselves the benefit of the doubt while assuming the worst in others.

The only solution to overcome this hypocrisy is to make multiple copies of our faces and paste them on the other person so when we look at them, we see ourselves and judge them the way we would judge ourselves. This is not to say that we should totally trust them; just because they look like you doesn't mean they are you—you can't see what's inside their head, you don't know what their intentions are. So that's why you have to make multiple copies of your brain too and insert them in their skulls when they're not looking.

You can't trust others, but you can at least trust yourself.

And for the people who say, "I don't trust myself": you do trust yourself not to trust yourself. So that's trust in itself. ✅️

Is it true?

Whenever you see your wishes in one valley and circumstances in another, recite over your heart: "you never know, perhaps God will bring about a new matter after that!"

Anyone without a bio is rejected. 😂

If you can’t introduce yourself in a few sentences, how are we supposed to build a connection?

I know what I want:

Emotional maturity, kindness, loyalty, affection, clear communication, and a woman who’s ready for something real.

No mind games, no guessing games, and no situationships disguised as relationships. I’m looking for a partner, not a detective case. 🕵️‍♂️😂