Mental health

being single in this generation is the better option :(❤️‍🩹

Surah Yusuf teaches us that dreams do come true if Allah wills and have sabr and tawakkul.

We all have wounds from the past.

I don't think love should erase them, but I believe the right person can make healing feel less lonely.

What do you think? Can two people heal together, or should they heal on their own first?

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"Beauty" Isn't Just a Rating

​I just watched some clip podcast from Ustadz Nuzul Dzikri, Salafi teacher. And honestly, make it open my eye. Capitalist make it like this.

So many of us, of course me too, get insecure or feel like we're "losing" "ugly" "not enough" just because we don't fit the typical beauty standards, or we think guys nowadays only care about looks.

​But he pointed out, humans not robots with settings you can adjust based on physical stats.

It's way more complex than that. There are so many guys who could easily be with someone who "good looking" on paper, but they choose their partner for so many other reasons maybe the shared history, feel comfort, and the chemistry that you just can't measure by looks alone.

This might be a bit of a relief, although what I've found now to men, beauty still number 1.

Ustaz Nuzul said : ​So, if you’re currently overthinking, just remember:

1. ​Stop comparing: Beauty is super subjective and changes with every generation.

2. ​Upgrade yourself: Just focus on your faith, your attitude, and your own growth.

3. ​Be classy: Self-love is the ultimate flex. When you have high inner value, you don't need validation from shallow standards.

​Point is: Don't let yourself lose to these toxic beauty standards. Stay humble, stay classy, and trust your journey.
And trust, one day we can find right man like my father say to people "My little daughter so beautiful"

Unconditional love turn to a fragile heart.

The moment you stop needing everyone's approval, you become difficult to control.

Whats one thing...

you wish people asked before getting married?