Mental health

What's a bigger sign of emotional maturity: knowing when to speak up or knowing when to stay quiet?

The trauma: “Nobody wants me”

ALLAH SWT says: “I have chosen you for Myself” Surah Taha (20:41)

Do they always discriminate you:

https://youtube.com/shorts/cnC33FEd72U?si=BmpvLaCE42-zUkpz

The fact that I've experienced a lot of the signs when I watched the video...

· A guy once insulted me for wanting to get to know him.
· I always get ghosted after the first meeting.
· This guy played with his phone the whole time we were meeting. I tried to converse, but he was too busy playing a game on his phone. After that, I texted him, thanks for the date. He never replied.
· Every time a guy asks me out, I don't have to predict it, it'll be the first and the last.

Oh well. Then people say I don't make an effort to find a partner. I tried. I really tried. Just nobody finds me... interesting enough. I can't help it, this is the face I got.

🌍 *The Logic of Religious Supremacists

Out of 8.3 billion people in the world, religious supremacists seem to believe that:

🌎 6 billion people follow the wrong religion and will burn in Hell.

🔥 Out of the remaining 2 billion, 1 billion will go to Hell because they belong to the wrong denomination.

⚔️ Out of that 1 billion, 600 million will go to Hell because they belong to the wrong sect.

🤔 And out of the remaining 400 million, many will still go to Hell because they mix beliefs, question traditions, or fail to practise their religion as expected.

📉 Keep narrowing the circle, and somehow, almost everyone ends up condemned — except the group declaring everyone else unworthy.

😇 And in the end… they shall be in Heaven!* 😂

Facts are facts, whether you like them or not 💯💯

Oh Allah grant me an escape and a deliverance from my situation Amen

Your naseeb is written by Allah, but your choices are yours. Do what’s right, trust His plan, and leave the rest to Him.

Just saying.

I come from a broken dysfunctional family.
Parents got separated and remarried to different partners.

I am 38.
It took a lot to build a life of my own after going through a lot of financial abuse. I’ve been living like a refugee in many countries because I fled home when I was a kid. I am finally settled in Canada as a citizen.

However, I live a very balanced life and nobody could make out that I’ve been living alone and some people around me are shocked by my resilience, wisdom and growth.

My parents and grandparents were the most richest and influential folks in the city and it only took a divorce and a lot of betrayals in the family for the whole empire to collapse.

All of this happened in the last 10 to 15 years and nobody knows my whereabouts. My father gave away all of the remaining assets to his second wife and my mother also abandoned me.

Nobody knows where I live and i realized that I am at peace only if i don’t get involved in my family drama.

If I marry a girl, I have to tell her that my parents passed away and I have nobody. I know it’s a bad thing to say that my parents are dead when they are still alive. But, that’s how I have been living. Any thought to remember that my parents and relatives are alive, pushes me down the negative spiral and I start having panic attacks.

I live my life as a newly born person.
I have no strings attached to my parents and family.

I am a very genuine man with an honest life and career. Very successful considering all the abuse and trauma I had to deal with from childhood.

I don’t lie about anything in life.
But I believe there’s goodness if my partner does not know about my trauma and dysfunctional family situation.

My heart and mind was broken into a thousand pieces and there’s no way to mend it.
I don’t want my partner to see me through the lens of my past and I don’t want anyone to remind me of my past with dysfunctional parents and the abuse from them.

So this is it.
I am also Childfree for this reason.