Mental health

Why do you cut them off?

Cutting someone off after you've reflected doesn't necessarily mean you're avoiding accountability. It depends on why you cut them off.
For example:
If you reflect and conclude, "I was wrong, but this relationship is unhealthy because we keep hurting each other," then ending the relationship can be a reasonable boundary.
If you reflect and conclude, "I don't want to face the discomfort of apologizing or repairing this," then cutting them off may be a way of avoiding vulnerability.
If you think, "They have a valid point, but they also repeatedly disrespect me," then distancing yourself can be an act of self-protection rather than selfishness.

To be honest, Tired of being an independent woman, I need someone to take care of me

Feel so lonely, i dont know how to start something to upgrade myself. Anyone can teach me?

Teach me to be mature and upgrade myself please, i need someone to guide me, but i dont know how 😕

Your sins are not greater than ALLAH’s mercy☝️🌿

Hate to be alone

(I'M LIKE A GOD DAMN HURRICANE 🌀,RAGING FOR DAYS I'M LOST)👀🫪😤 Hey y'all today I got some BREAKING NEWS to share with y'all. Yes yes nobody asked, nobody cares😝 but I felt compelled to tell you so amazing and bittersweet folks 😜( UH I FEEL LIKE THERE'S A GRAMMATICAL ERROR HERE, but IK YOU KNOW WHAT I MEANT 🤣 Let's move on) It's personal storytime ma peeps, let's dive right in 🌊💧🙂‍↕️( STAY AWAY FROM WATER 💦 IF YOU DUNNO HOW TO SWIM 🫪, IDK how to swim EITHER SO I CAN'T SAVE YOU,EVEN IF I WANTED TO 😂JK)Funny enough I actually love the beach 🏖️😍, is that concerning since I ain't tryna live long 🤔🤣 I'M not gonna do anything y'all, sewer slide is HARAM ASTAGFIRULLAH 😤) DO NOT CALL THE HELPLINE, I'M OKAIEE! WALLAHI 🙂‍↕️🤗. Anyways,

I got OFFICIALLY diagnosed with ADHD yesterday (inserts clapping noises) 😚 Believe it or not I'm pretty proud of my new title that got added to my list of mental illnesses 😂. At certain point I started to see it as achievements instead of a disorder or concern 🌹🫶🏼. So yeah just wanted to share this with y'all, that it's not self proclaimed anymore 😎 my psychiatrist said it's very much factual. BTW I'm not BIPOLAR 😤 I asked to get tested for that too and failed the first question like how I failed every math class in my college days 😉. Long STORY into few hours LATER...

I know a lot of people have been getting diagnosed with ADHD lately. I googled the definition -ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that interfere with daily functioning. I don't think my ADHD is severe haha 🤣 I think it adds a SPARKLE ✨ to my personality. So I told my psychiatrist I don't wanna take meds for it as of right now. But apparently there are options 🫶🏼👀

Just be yourself unapologetically, right person will value you and wrong person will make you question your EXISTENCE 😭 ( why did I write an essay, uhh anyways TOODLES)

Ice cream🥹🍦

Real strength is quiet, steady, and patient, waiting for the right time to act.💯✅

It takes much more power to stay calm and quiet than to lose your temper.💯✅