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I need a serious relationship not Haram I don't care that single or unmarried I just want loyalty and priority and love 😌♥️🤧
I am not generalizing but just stating a fact that when someone says I love *** or I have *** with others before but it was casual so just remember you’re talking about zina and it’s not *** or casual *** it’s zina and it’s a sin . Only avoiding pork and eating halal meat doesn’t make you a good Muslim. Not doing zina is also as important as eating halal.
Munafiq and Narcissist: Similarities in Behaviour, Manipulation, and Deception
They seek to deceive Allah and those who believe, but they deceive not except themselves, though they do not perceive it.”
Image Over Substance
When examining the Qur’anic description of the munafiq alongside modern descriptions of narcissistic behavior, striking similarities appear in patterns of conduct rather than in labels.
Both often rely on image over substance, saying what is necessary to gain trust while concealing their true intentions. They may present themselves as righteous, caring, or morally superior, yet their actions leave behind confusion, division, and harm.
Manipulation and Control
Common traits include deception, manipulation, blame-shifting, refusal to accept accountability, playing the victim when challenged, exploiting the goodwill of others, and using charm or persuasion to achieve personal objectives. Truth becomes secondary to maintaining control, status, influence, or advantage.
Speaking One Way, Acting Another
The Qur’an describes the munafiq as speaking one way and acting another, breaking trust, creating discord, and spreading corruption while claiming to be reformers. Similarly, narcissistic patterns often involve gaslighting, rewriting events, denying wrongdoing, triangulating people against one another, and using others as tools to serve their own interests.
Distorting Reality
A recurring feature in both descriptions is the distortion of reality. Facts are twisted, motives are projected onto others, and responsibility is redirected away from the individual. The result is often emotional, psychological, social, and sometimes spiritual harm to those caught within their sphere of influence.
The Common Thread
The common thread is not a title or diagnosis, but a recognizable pattern: deception disguised as sincerity, self-interest disguised as virtue, and harm disguised as righteousness.
Peace, patience, and better days ahead ✨ just taking life slowly💛
Why everyone ignored me like I am nothing ☺️☺️☺️