All things marriage

Single:
"He hasn't got..."
He also hasn't got a Biological Clock Tick Tock!

Divorced:
"3children, Divorced, don't want anymore children, I want to travel"

It's as if I'm being brought into her final argument when she was married.

I just wanted to share something that has been on my mind.

A few months ago, I met a man on Muzz (I met him on 2 different account, the first met is with his real name and the 2nd is his fake name but I remember that was him i falling for before 🥺). From the very beginning, his intentions were clear. He wasn't looking for games or a casual relationship he wanted marriage. That was something I respected a lot and I wanted to.

As we got to know each other, I genuinely started to like him. He had many of the qualities I had been praying for. But things became complicated. We both had fears, misunderstandings, and concerns about whether we could make it work.

Eventually, we decided to end our communication. It was painful, but I accepted it because I believed Allah knows what is best for both of us. I tried my best to move on and focus on myself.

Then, unexpectedly, between 2 weeks he contacted me again. He told me that he kept thinking about me, that he wondered if he had made a mistake by giving up too easily, and that his feelings for me had never really changed. He also said he had stepped away because he thought it was better for my peace of mind.

Hearing those words brought back so many emotions. Part of me was happy because I still cared about him, but another part of me was afraid of getting hurt again. I told him that I had moved on, but I also admitted that I hadn't completely closed the door, and we decide to START again with NEW energy and NEW HOPE continue to getting know each other,, he the person thatwantp physically touch with me before marriage he wants me to keep sensual natural feelings growth between us and we did the "fantasy" about our being together. But in the middle of the weeks afterthat romance communications, I said to him that I'm not comfortable with this way of approach, like I told him that this was not the right thing we should do before marriage 🥺😔 and that way makes me feeling more afraid of losing him again 😭💔
My Sheikh has told me no showing sensual feeling and do *** before marriage.
I told him about this my feeling and he mad at me, he said why are you not saying this in the first when i ask you are you comfortable with that, he shaking, he feel so anxious and feeling bad about himself because he did something and it cross my boundaries😭 it's so complicated, sometimes i want it but sometimes i feel so wrong to did that..
we had a long phone call. Before we ended the call, he said, "The truth is, I love you, and it hasn't changed." We both said, "I love you," to each other. Since then, I've been feeling confused. I miss him, but I'm also trying to protect my heart. I still love him and also he still loving me. 😔🥺😭💔💔

I'm just trying to trust Allah's plan, no matter how difficult it feels. And also I just keep being positive thinking about him as long as maybe like the little thing i want to know like abouthisa schedule of the day, about his photos or activities( IN ME : Someone who truly love you is someonethat open and let you know about everything in his life include schedule or activity because it means he want her he want to bring her into his life right??, and that's the feeling I wanna feel.. Until now what I got is just like about cuddle or anything else, he says his intention is want to marry me but if we talk aboutsomethings little serious he's like lesscconcentrated and less attention)

Has anyone here ever experienced something similar? How did you know whether it was worth trying again or whether it was better to let go? Please I need your responses guys

A guy posted, "hey I am new here"

In all good will, as a well wisher, I was this close to telling "will wait till you get old" .

(Coz life's cooked on Muzz. There's absolutely nothing here ☠️)

I guess my mission is to save people running on false hopes on Muzz 😂

Seeking advice from brothers who talk to wali, at what stage do you prefer or talk to wali, is it after a few calls, few meet ups etc. personally I want to get my wali involved asap. Also what do I do if I’m not 100 sold on someone, for instance I know my parents might be ok with a divorced man with maybe 1 child but they might not be ok with multiple children. Also with some matches I just flow into convos easily where as with others my guard is up and it’s a bodily reaction. I don’t get it.

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How to keep the chatting cause the guy keep ghosting even like my pic?

One unexpected thing about Muzz is that it exposes you to incredibly accomplished men. In a way, that teaches you to raise your standards.

The irony is that many of those men don't choose you, and you can't bring yourself to choose someone who isn't willing or able to bring the same level of effort, values, or ambition. (I am NOT talking about MONEY)

So you end up feeling stuck—not because your standards are unrealistic, but because you've seen what's possible and can't unsee it.

It feels a bit like Inception... trapped inside a loop of your own expectations.

90% it's fake

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Looking Groom for myself.
Name :- Disclosed later.
DOB : August, 1999.
Height :- 5.3 feet
Religion:-Islam( practicing Muslim & wearing hijab)
Marital Status: Unmarried
Profession : working on a private company.
Education:-
O. Level's-Maple leaf international school .
A . levels-Maple leaf international school.
Law Graduate from a reputed private University
Home district - Khulna.
Bride born and raised up in dhaka and now working at dhaka.
Permanent address :-
Mohammadpur Dhaka ( Own House)
Family member
Father Name :- Disclosed later
Occupation - Lawyer
Mother Name :- Disclosed later
Occupation - Ex High School teacher.
Siblings :2 Brothers
Expectation from groom:
Age- 30 -35 year

Never married, Good mentality, Well mannered, Non-smoker,Non-alcoholic. Practicing muslim.
Family oriented & responsible. Respectful to others.
Profession - Engineer /Govt or Private Banker / Sattle at aboard/ Private job holders
Preferably sattled at Dhaka.
Pls send bio-data after Your family discussion & permission.
Inbox your bio-data with full of information
Thank you all.

I’m 44 and prefer women between 29 and 34. out of context, a 10-15 year age gap sounds like a lot, but not when I’m in my 40s. by the time we get married and have at least one or two kids, I will be in my mid-late 40s and she will be in her early to mid 30s. as I said, that’s just my preference, so it's not a line in the sand. I was just curious to know what everyone else thinks