All things marriage

Imagine waking up one day and you’re married and your wife is right there, sleeping next to you 😍

Knowing she has your best interests at heart
Knowing she loves you
Getting a feeling it was all worth it to finally have what your soul has been dying for

Ahhhhh. I closed my eyes and pictured that life and it felt sooo good 🥰🥰🥰
Just the vision makes me feel so grateful. I can’t even imagine the gratitude my heart is going to feel when it happens

Alhamdulillah 🤲🏼

Hy friends how are you

A divorced woman is not a failure; she is a woman who had the courage to close a chapter that was hurting her and the strength to begin again.

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I honestly wish there were a filter to hide profiles with heavy makeup. 😔

I also think every girl puts that on is 100 % gold digger 😡

Hi to everyone 👋

Salam alaykum to everyone.
Let's have a real and a honest talk for a minute.
I keep seeing this frustrating trend popping up on platforms like this and in our communities as well. People are explicitly putting "Syed only" in their bios, or families are flat-out rejecting amazing, pious Muslims (boys/girls) just because they don't have the title of "Syed" attached to their name.

Let me be straight with you: this is absolute nonsense.

This is far from what is the teachings of Islam. This isn't Islam but a leftover cultural toxic trait from the days of Jahiliyyah (ignorance) that people are trying to dress up as religious piety.

When we look at our Deen, what did Allah (swt) actually tell us? The Quran doesn't say "the best of you are those from a specific bloodline." It says clearly that "the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the one with the most Taqwa (piety)."
When the Prophet (pbuh) and his Ahlul Bayt (as) told us how to choose a spouse, they gave us two simple criteria: "faith and good character". That's it.
Nowhere did they say you need to form an exclusive club based on lineage.

And honestly, the ironic things is being a Sayyid is supposed to be a heavy responsibility. It means you are tasked with reflecting the humility, morals, and justice of the Prophet (pbuh). It is not a VIP pass to look down on others or fuel tribalism.
When a family rejects a righteous, believing Muslim/Muslimah just because they are "non-Syed," they are literally going against the Sunnah of the very Prophet they claim to honor so much. So, Let’s not forget that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) arranged the marriage of his own noble cousin to Zayd bin Harithah, a freed slave. Why? Specifically to crush these kinds of fake, tribal status walls.

Anyways, i advice you or request you, don't let this un-Islamic cultural baggage mess up your lives or delay your marriages.
Don't feed into it: Keep this tribalism out of your own requirements.
Educate your parents: If your family is stuck in this mindset, gently but firmly stand your ground. Remind them of the Sunnah.
Focus on the real stuff: Look for a spouse with a pure heart, a good head on their shoulders, and a real connection with Allah.

There is a reason guys who are not financially secure are the majority here on this app.
And there is a reason why professional, educated, financially secure women are also the majority here.

I know the reason. But remember people never listened to prophets. So they won't listen to me either. Maybe listen to yourselves. What are your thoughts?

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