All things marriage

This is first post on Jama!!!

Based on my experience of registering for this program for the second time✌🏻I believe it lacks credibility. Either the platform itself is not trustworthy and the photos are not real🥷🏻, or the women users are not genuine as I have received almost no responses from anyone I contacted.

Even when I do receive a reply—which is very rare🙅‍♂️—it usually takes an extremely long time. 🕰️This situation raises serious doubts about the authenticity and effectiveness of the program.

Therefore, I have decided to delete it permanently, and I will never return to it again.✋

https://youtube.com/shorts/IsQFLAmp6BQ?si=4mSQvIQ6q4qF5reg

You gotta want for your brother what you want for yourself.

Hey, I'm a chef, I'm looking for a friend.

Alarming increase in divorce/ Khula rate in Pakistan

https://youtu.be/irYGA2h5Rv4?si=JVj0rH5cljGBBdi-

A somewhat of a controversial point of view, but please humour me for a moment:

Imagine speaking to a person, hearing their voice, what makes them smile or laugh, or giggle, hearing their excitement, seeing the emotion in their eyes be it anger or joy, understanding their passions and aspirations, what annoys or pleases them, all this before seeing a paper which reduces a complex human personality into a checklist.

In short, imagine getting to know the personality (an insight into one's soul if you like) of our matches, before pigeonholing them into a list of criteria, and ruling them out as unsuitable based on these.

I do sometimes wonder whether this is what our parents' generation got right and we are getting wrong. We are so focused on the information before us, that we lose sight of the personality behind it... imagine if we flipped it around and met the personality first.

Who knows, maybe finding our soulmates might actually be easier if we focused on getting an insight into one's soul.

Hiiii 👀

Teamwork makes the dream work.

Does love change us… or does it expose the parts of us we never noticed before?