Ramadan

The Qur’an reminds us that Allah knows what hearts conceal. Sometimes nobody understands why you’re hurting, but Allah knows. (64:4)

Manal | 33 |  Canadian-Iraqi

Hobbies, travelling, cooking, baking watching Pakistani dramas, hiking, volunteering, photography

Priority: Guided by Deen, kindness, and good Akhlaq

Favorite ways to spend time: Long outdoor walks, making delicious treats, and traveling

What I'm seeking: A grounded, practicing partner with strong values to share life, laughs, and goals with

Bismillah Ya Allah 🤲📿

What's harder to find: a loyal partner or an emotionally mature one?

“And Allah has made for you from yourselves mates and has made for you from your mates sons and grandchildren and has provided for you from the good things. Then in falsehood do they believe and in the favor of Allah they disbelieve?”

“And they worship besides Allah that which does not possess for them provision from the heavens and the earth at all, and, they are unable.”

• -QUR’AN 16:72–73 | SURAH AN-NAHL

Your Inner World Shapes Your Reality

"Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves" (Surah Ar-Ra'd 13:11)

Science calls this neuroplasticity-repeated thoughts rewire your brain automatically. What you repeatedly believe below your awareness eventually becomes your life.

A little reminder: No matter how late you slept, how tired you feel, or how heavy your heart is, don't give up on Fajr. Your soul needs this connection.

IN MAKKAH,

I SAW SOMETHING THAT TOUCHED MY HEART. 🕋

A wife was sleeping peacefully on her husband's lap at Fajr time while he sat reading the Qur'an in front of the Ka'bah.

And honestly?

THAT is relationship goals to me.

Not a couple showing off their love for the world to see.

Not a husband and wife competing to prove who loves the other more on social media.

Not a marriage built on beauty, money, expensive gifts, or romantic words alone.

But a wife who feels safe enough to rest beside her husband, and a husband who finds peace in worshipping Allah while caring for the woman He has entrusted to him.

Imagine loving someone who reminds you of Allah.

Someone whose presence brings tranquillity to your heart.

Someone who holds you close in this Dunya while helping you prepare for the Ākhirah.

A husband who leads with kindness, not cruelty.

A wife who brings peace, not constant competition.

Two hearts learning to love one another for the sake of Allah, encouraging each other toward Salah, Qur'an, patience, and righteousness.

Imagine a love that does not distract you from Allah, but brings you closer to Him.

Allah says:☝️☝️

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.”

📚 Qur'an 30:21📚

My dear brothers and sisters,

may Allah bless us with marriages where love is accompanied by mercy, affection is accompanied by respect, and companionship becomes a means of drawing closer to our Creator.

May our homes be filled with Qur'an, our hearts with tranquillity, and our marriages with sincere love that remains pleasing to Allah.

And may Allah grant us spouses who make this Dunya more beautiful while helping us prepare for the Ākhirah.

Not just relationship goals. A marriage that brings you closer to Jannah, by the mercy of Allah.

Āmīn.

Allah knows best.

MY DEAR SISTERS IN ISLAM,

PLEASE,

LET US BE HONEST WITH OURSELVES ABOUT HIJAB.

If you have decided to cover your hair, then cover it properly. Do not allow fashion trends to dictate how you obey Allah.

Some sisters cover their hair but deliberately leave a portion of it exposed at the front, around the hairline, or beneath the scarf, simply because they like the style.

Sister,

pause for a moment and ask yourself: 📌📌

Am I wearing my hijab to fulfil the command of Allah, or am I changing the way I wear it to satisfy the demands of fashion?

Hijab is not merely a piece of cloth you put on your head. It is an act of worship, an expression of obedience to Allah, and a responsibility that deserves sincerity.

Allah says:☝️☝️

“And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, and not to reveal their adornments except what normally appears.”

📚Qur’an 24:31📚

My dear sister,

the world will always introduce new styles.

Today, a certain style is trending; tomorrow, another one will replace it.

But fashion trends will not stand beside you on the Day of Judgment.

The people praising your appearance today cannot answer to Allah on your behalf tomorrow.

Do not sacrifice obedience to Allah for a fashion trend that will eventually disappear.

And to every sister who is struggling, learning, or trying to improve her hijab, do not despair. Keep learning, keep striving, and ask Allah to make obedience beloved to your heart.

This reminder is not an invitation to mock women, humiliate them, or declare their efforts worthless. It is a call to sincerity, knowledge, and improvement.

Sisters, let us take our Deen seriously. Let us learn what Allah has commanded and strive to follow it with sincerity.

May Allah guide our sisters, strengthen their faith, protect them from the deception of this Dunya, and make modesty beloved to their hearts.

Āmīn.

Fashion changes. Trends disappear. But our accountability before Allah remains.

Allah knows best.

Sister !

Dont let this boys deceive you,

when your time to get married comes,

you will surly get married.

Even if you reply all your DM from today to tomorrow,

the ones who will deceive you, will deceive,

evil is always more than Good when it comes to DM issue,

so open your eyes.

MY DEAR MUSLIM SISTERS,

PLEASE,

OPEN YOUR EYES BEFORE SOMEONE BREAKS YOUR HEART.

Sister,

do not allow a man to deceive you simply because he knows how to speak sweetly, make you smile, or promise you a beautiful future.

Not every man who enters your DM has marriage in mind.
Not every man who says “I love you” is prepared to take responsibility for you. And not every man who talks about a future with you has sincere intentions.

Some will promise marriage but never take a serious step toward it.

Some will ask for your pictures, your time, your attention, and your emotions, only to disappear when you begin asking about commitment.

Others will keep you waiting, feeding you promises while you reject genuine opportunities to pursue a serious, halal marriage.

Sister, please do not confuse sweet words with sincere intentions.

When your time for marriage comes, what Allah has decreed for you will not miss you. You do not have to entertain every man in your DM to secure your future.

You can reply to a thousand messages and still encounter dishonesty. You can give one person your attention and still discover that his intentions were never sincere.

The number of men who approach you does not determine your worth, and having many men interested in you does not guarantee that any of them is suitable for marriage.

So, what should you do?📌📌📌

📍 Protect your heart and your dignity.
📍Do not rush into emotional attachment before establishing serious intentions.
📍 Ask direct questions about marriage.
📍 Involve your wali when a proposal becomes serious.
📍 Look for good character, religious commitment, honesty, and responsible actions.
📍Do not ignore warning signs simply because you have fallen in love.
📍Make du‘ā, seek wise counsel, and trust Allah.

Remember,

a man who genuinely intends to marry you should be willing to discuss a clear, respectful, and halal path forward rather than keeping you trapped in endless promises.

And sisters,

do not become so afraid of deception that you assume every man is evil. There are sincere men, just as there are insincere ones. Learn to distinguish between words and actions.

Your responsibility is not to chase marriage out of fear that time is running out. Your responsibility is to make wise choices while trusting Allah with what you cannot control.

Allah says:☝️

“And whoever relies upon Allah — then He is sufficient for him.”

📚Qur’an 65:3📚

My dear sister,

do not sacrifice your peace, your faith, or your boundaries just because you are afraid of remaining unmarried.

The right decision is not to entertain everybody. It is to choose wisely, proceed with dignity, and seek what pleases Allah.

May Allah protect our sisters from deception, grant them righteous husbands, and bless them with marriages filled with faith, honesty, affection, and mercy.

Āmīn.

Allah knows best.