Muslims in the UK

Asalamualikum all,

Just wanted to speak on this brothers comments, and those that disrespect full comments towards him, ( a duty of me as a Muslim brother to the ummah - to guide)

It's understandable to feel protective of someone who might be new to Islam and trying their best. It's true that we often don't know the full story behind someone's actions or words.

Here's a rephrased version with emojis and an Islamic reminder:

"Let's be gentle and remember that everyone is on their own journey. 🤝 This brother might be a new Muslim (a revert) who's recently learned about the importance of marriage in completing 'half his deen.' 🕌 We don't know his full story or the context of his comment. While he could have expressed himself differently, seeing harsh judgments like 'coloniser,' 'skinny,' 'white,' 'EDL,' or other unkind remarks from fellow Muslims could be incredibly discouraging for someone just starting their path. 💔

This app is here to help everyone find a potential spouse, so let's uphold respect for all genders. Instead of judgment, let's offer guidance with kindness. Perhaps a gentle reminder like, 'Don't judge a book by its cover; read it to truly know it,' would be more beneficial. 🌱 Remember the words of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him): 'Indeed, Allah is kind and loves kindness in all matters.' Let's strive to embody that kindness in our interactions. 😊"

@h_merralls

Please men, don’t ghost woman after talking for months and months. And when she confront you , asking same level of attention and care, you showed in beginning, why blaming her as being ‘toxic and selfish’.

I met this Pakistani man (currently in UK) here on Muzz back in October 2025. I even let him join me and my both children in our space. He was more like of a family friend to us. I was waiting when is he going to propose me, but instead he was just “convenient” being around us. Then suddenly the spark was gone. He left no time to make me feel special through his text messages and calls. I was gone crazy, I started missing him and asking him whats going on. He responded that he has started workong extra hours, took another job and dealing with his financial crisis. I couldn’t help him much.

Today, I again texted him that if he could send me a kind message like he used to. To which he said that I am blaming him. And ….thats it!

I am in tears to write any further. I wish he could have told me straight forwardedly that he doesn’t feel same thing long time ago, instead of ghosting me and treating me with silence.

If i favorite someone profile, does the other person gets notification for it?
I want to favorite someone profile but don't want to let her know🙂

As Salam Alaikum all,

I am doing primary research for my university project and would anyone with autism, ADHD, dyslexia etc be willing to fill a survey? The only requirements is that you need to be neurodivergent and from the ages of 18-34.

Question for the girls. When some of you take a long break from the app (I see alot of people deactivate and come back), what's the plan are you using rishta aunties or are you just hoping for the best? I'm intrigued 😅

Marriage (nikah) is a blessed Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and is encouraged for those who are able.

Not everyone who smiles with you has a sincere heart. In this world, some people speak kindly to your face while working against you behind your back.
So don't open your heart to everyone and don't share your secrets with just anyone. Trust those who prove their sincerity not only through words, but through their actions. True character is revealed by what people do not by what they say.🌸😒

Hi guys please help this woman she really struggling I did helped her as much as I could but it’s not enough even 1 pound can help her thank you.. https://gofund.me/5cbef80cf

Sometimes, while walking through the streets of Britain, I find myself surrounded by so many beautiful white women. Then my inner voice quietly says,

"No handsome man is ever going to choose you. They'll always go for the white beauties."

It's a thought born from comparison, not reality, but it still finds its way into my mind sometimes.

Have you ever felt something similar?

Whats more important figure/body or nicer face.

Pick 1 .