Muslims in London

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Asalaimakun my Muslim friends

Microfinance analyst 📊 + full‑time dad 👨‍👧‍👦. Searching for a sincere partner to share laughter, respect, and love. Serious intentions only 💍.

I believe that the moment someone creates a profile on a marriage app it should not become a battlefield between men and women, where each side is trying to prove who is stronger or more powerful.

What I see today is that some women have started approaching relationships as a competition with men. They want to assert themselves, control everything and behave as though they have to prove that they can be stronger than a man. But if a woman constantly feels that she has to compete with a man then what exactly is she looking for in a relationship?

This century has changed many things, and I honestly believe that if this continues, there may come a time when the meaning of marriage itself becomes almost unrecognisable. Too much idealism endless arguments, unrealistic expectations and the constant desire to control the relationship can destroy the very thing people are supposedly looking for.

There is a difference between having confidence, independence and a voice, and turning every relationship into a struggle for power. A woman does not become stronger by trying to become the man in the relationship, just as a man does not become stronger by trying to dominate a woman.

Men and women are different by nature, and there is nothing wrong with that. A healthy relationship is not about two people fighting to see who can control the other. It is about two people understanding their nature, respecting their differences, and building something together.

If a woman says she wants a man who can lead, protect, provide emotional stability and control his emotions, then she also has to understand that you cannot ask a man to be that man while constantly challenging him, competing with him and trying to take control of everything.

You cannot turn marriage into a war and then complain that there are no good men left. At some point both men and women need to stop asking How can I win against the other? and start asking How can we actually build a life together?

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Everyone on this app seems to know ot all don't they lol