To a respected rich man. I don't want to embarrass you.

But I want to tell you that you shouldn't make any more women victims.

So, when I tell you about my life experience, it's not with the intention of embarrassing someone.

So you know that I don't want any other women to become victims. Because I see you are active in the comment columns chatting with women from various countries with various flag colors.

Here, I clearly want to give a message to myself and our readers to be more careful with strangers, don't want to come to the hotel meeting.

We have to think about the risk of HIV. Even if we get married later, we need both parties to have a medical report about HIV. And why am I still posting? I still feel angry. I spent my time from June 6, 2026 to June 11, 2026, I chatted with feelings, love, and hope.

I was labeled as a materialistic woman who wanted wealth. I fought to prove to the man that I was not because of wealth.

I negotiated a marriage contract, a secret marriage, if it exists in which country I don't know. I negotiated that after we got married, we were long distance, I still worked in this country.

But there was no choice, no choice, finally he said he couldn't, the distance was too far. But why did he want to book a hotel? So it's clear here I feel disadvantaged when my mental state was played with, my intention was to love, to love, to live and die for the rest of my life, my second marriage.

So just now, guys, he commented in the comments column proudly, not ashamed, he wanted to be confident because I knew he didn't show his personal face. But I deleted that post, I don't know if he'll comment here later.

Maybe before me, there was a woman who had been affected or after meeting me, it became a very scary experience for the man because I am a person who dares to speak and write.

And I came to this application with the hope of my past experience, I failed to defend my son's biological father because I was not strong enough in Islam, my knowledge of Islam was not strong enough.

Finally, his biological father returned to the religion of his ancestors and left us, and my son lost his father figure. I feel guilty that my life has never been peaceful because it's as if I separated my son from his father.

My son always asks why my father can't circumambulate the Kaaba. 🤲🕋

Here I come, a special Islamic dating application. I'm looking for a husband who understands religion.

whose Islam is good. with full hope. I thought this man had a good religion and was willing to accept all my shortcomings.

It turned out that in the end our story was very embarrassing.

and our introduction in the comments column I wrote before I die I want to visit the Umayyad Mosque in Damascus. the man responded may I come. and we will die together I thought it was a romantic sentence for the beginning of our acquaintance.

then the man checked my post. then the man sent a DM message assalamualaikum Maryam I want to marry a woman who reads the Quran if I remember correctly.

I thought this was a romantic experience the way he came, the way he appeared was very sweet if I read it again at that time.

so I was wrong to post with the intention of humiliating. no intention of humiliating. a lesson for me and for him, no woman should be a victim and he must be self-aware and never do that again to another woman.