Pakistanis

Is it okay to send Hi to strange girls?

I’ll be blunt, whether you agree with me or not.

Finding a guy on Muzz (living in Pakistan) with a genuinely strong background feels like finding a needle in a haystack. You scroll through a hundred profiles before one stands out. Half the time, you realise they didn’t even grow up in Pakistan, which honestly makes sense because I personally feel that sharing the same level of communication, especially when English comes naturally, makes it much easier to build a deep connection. You can absolutely have a great relationship otherwise too, but for me, it’s important.

Then there are the rare few where your first thought is, shukar hai, koi achi parhi likhi family ka banda mila. Someone who carries himself well. Not an extremist uncle with a rigid traditional mindset. Someone with presence, good stature, and the kind of personality where you instantly think, “This could actually work.”

In my one month subscription, I found exactly two such people.

And guess what?

Neither of them actually wanted to get married.

They were on a marriage app… just to see what’s out there.

I get it. Marriage is permanent. Everyone is scared of making the wrong decision or wondering if there’s someone better waiting around the corner. But there will always be someone better out there.

What frustrates me is that when things are actually going well, they panic and disappear. They’ll happily stay friends, though.

Honestly, I think I’ve made more friends on Muzz in one month than I did throughout university.

Yaar… this is a shaadi app.

They’ll tell you, “Shukar hai, I finally found someone like you,” and complain about meeting paindu, uncultured, incompatible people. But when they finally do find someone they genuinely connect with…

Do they move forward?

No.

They need more time to look around. What if they miss someone “better”?

It’s exhausting.

Some days, I genuinely feel like deleting this app.

Every new level is preceded by a new test. Pass this one, and watch what God does next.

LONGTERM KARACHI

I want...🌹

Assalamualaikum I hope everyone is doing fine. How's experience going for people here on this platform especially Pakistani nationals who are genuinely looking for spouse for themselves. For me I encountered with some Pakistani girls and chatted with them they all were faar away from reality and want everything perfect 100/100 from their future spouse which is impossible to give. Others share your experiences.

Over the years on Muzz, I've learned a lesson that wasn't easy to accept.
I chose to show up as my authentic self—honest, transparent, and genuine. I believed that trust and character would always be the strongest foundation for a meaningful relationship.
The reality, however, is that people value different things. For some, financial stability, lifestyle, or other practical considerations naturally play a significant role. I've come to respect that everyone has the right to choose what matters most to them.
As for me, I won't compromise my values to fit expectations. I'd rather be accepted for who I truly am than admired for someone I'm pretending to be.
The right connection won't require me to become someone else. Until then, I'll continue choosing honesty, patience, and authenticity—because those are the values I hope to build a lifetime upon.
#Authenticity #Trust #Honesty #Muzz #MarriageJourney

"Some people touched my heart, but only memories stayed

Ya Allah, I can’t let him go. Please help me let go if he’s not written for me, and if he is, bring him back in the best way.