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Navigating life in your 30s? Come connect and grow with others on the same path, from careers to relationships to identity 💬

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Tharra

@thepanda_jee

20 days ago

Being the youngest child in a family is not always as easy or as spoiled as people imagine. Every birth order comes with its own responsibilities this is simply my POV as the youngest. 🥺🤍

I’m always grateful that, when I truly need or want something, somehow Allah ﷻ makes a way for me. But there are also many moments when I have to understand the situation, step back, and give way.

People often think the youngest is the most pampered. Sometimes, surprisingly, the youngest learns to compromise the most to understand everyone’s circumstances, to be told what to do by older siblings, to stay quiet, and to accept things with sincerity.

And sometimes, what the youngest quietly does for the family can feel unseen.

It’s not about jealousy.
It’s not even about needing constant validation.

Sometimes you just wish the effort was noticed too.

Especially when your own journey takes longer, when you are the one who has the least to begin with, when support does not always come in the way you hoped, yet you still keep giving whatever you can to the family.

There are sacrifices people may never fully see, let alone measure. 🥹

Perhaps that is part of growing up too learning that not every sacrifice will be acknowledged, not every kindness will be returned equally, and not every contribution will receive applause.

But Allah ﷻ knows.

And sometimes, knowing that He sees what others overlook is enough to keep the heart sincere. 🤍

الحمد لله على كل حال

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Mohamed Eissa

@MohamedEissa28

20 days ago

Hello all, I'm new here 👋🤗

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Mo

@35159104

20 days ago

Anyone living in Bahrain ?

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Silent Words

@silentwords

20 days ago

A woman often shows her most vulnerable, complicated side to the man she truly loves.

And a man is often more patient with the woman who truly matters to him.

Love isn’t about finding someone who never gets difficult. It’s about finding someone worth understanding, even on the difficult days.

Real love doesn’t demand perfection. It chooses patience, understanding, and each other—again and again. ❤️

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Silent Words

@silentwords

20 days ago

Some hear your words. Few understand your silence.

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Nayli

@AyliMia

20 days ago

I'm very sleepy 😩 can i go home now?

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Ainie

@Ainie1

21 days ago

30’s crew✨

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Ainie

@Ainie1

21 days ago

What you seek is seeking you.

Rumi

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Ali Shah

@Ali1315899

21 days ago

Salam everyone 🙋‍♂️

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Andina

@andinastitie

21 days ago

I thought adulthood was just bills and responsibilities. Turns out it also comes with body aches, overthinking, emotional damage, and absolutely no refund.

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