The 40s
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The 40s are just getting good! Connect with others who are thriving in this chapter of life 💫
Aslm Alghamdulila just reached 40 and somehow feel different, I just got a feeling somehow, u wiser, stronger becz of all the bumps u had to cross along the road, and I'm sure thr r alot here at this age thinking, when isit my turn... Inshallah keep each other in our duaas,
In your 40s, chemistry is nice, but compatibility is hotter. “You communicate clearly and don’t disappear for three days?” Marry me immediately.
This documentary highlights how economic shocks and career focus push family formation into later years, often leading to involuntary childlessness.
If a guy is giving very little effort, does that mean he’s not very interested? Or he’s genuinely busy? This guy Ive been chatting with takes 2 days to respond to a text. It’s been 2 weeks like this and he says he’s just busy with work and traveling.
I’ve heard that when men are interested, they make the time and put in the effort, energy, and initiative. Which makes me think he’s just not that into me. Seems like the story of my life at this point lol.
Relationship is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. A relationship is about having someone who respects you, who cares about you, who understands you, who is proud of having you, who loves the way you are, who is faithful to you, and who knows how to comfort you
It's about choosing character over appearance, consistency over convenience, and depth over display. Looks fade after the first fight. The person who stays up to talk through the misunderstanding, who remembers how you take your tea after a bad day, who apologizes without being forced to, that is the real standard. Do you think we confuse chemistry with compatibility because excitement is louder than peace, or is it because nobody taught us what healthy actually feels like? What's the most important trait to test early on, respect under stress, honesty when it costs something, or patience when you're not at your best? How do you think couples can build a relationship that survives boredom, not just passion? What's one thing you'd want to tell someone who's tired of chasing aesthetics and ready for substance?
I had great expectations. But unfortunately I totally disappointed.i thought I can find my soul mate here.3abita
Never beg for attention from someone who claims to love you deeply. If their love is real, you won't have to ask🩶
When a random lady waiting with me for our Ubers, says to the 40s me before getting in her Uber “Are you old enough to be going in the Uber by yourself?”
Talk about the increase in my blood count! 🥳
Had a small operation last week and today has been a hard day 😔 in a lot of pain...