The 40s
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The 40s are just getting good! Connect with others who are thriving in this chapter of life 💫
Peace be upon you. I am a man looking for a life partner, just as you are. I am Egyptian, 48 years old, 180 cm tall, and weigh 80 kg. I am athletic, don't take any medication, and am perfectly healthy, thanks be to God. I own a chicken farm. I have two daughters who live with their mother and an older son who lives independently. I suffer from loneliness. I want a wife for a legal and permanent marriage. I have no objection to having children. I will send you some pictures of myself, my work, and where I live. Please give me a chance, and God willing, I will live up to your expectations and more.
Men between 40-45
What exactly are you looking for in a woman to pull the trigger soon? And why are so many of you still wanting to not settle down within a year? I see so many profiles of men in their early to mid 40s still saying their marital timeline is 1-2 years. What is that about? Isn’t it against Islamic values to prolong dating and be in a haraam relationship?
Anyone single girl/woman here from Karachi Defence or surrounding areas?
Please leave a comment i will contact
..the strongest people after 40 are the ones who 🛑 stop betraying themselves.. understand your strengths and weaknesses and continue to work on them
“Dating in your 40s is less ‘Do they like me?’ and more ‘Do I even want another human in my house?’”
Just a reflective thought cuz I had a serious talk about relationships with a close cousin yesterday.
She couldn’t fathom why I’m single. She gave me all the compliments any cousin who loves you and has known you since young would. Then she said maybe I’m not trying anymore or maybe I’ve given up.
But explaining it to her kinda put things into a clearer perspective for myself too.
I am comfortable with myself. I enjoy the freedom of being single and alhamdulillah I make do with what I have and have been given in life. So for me to choose a man as a life partner… he would have to show me that life with him is better than the life I already have as a single woman.
And honestly, I hope it’s the same for the guy too. That if he chooses me, it’s because he truly believes life with me would be better than without.
It’s not arrogance or some profound realisation that made me think this way. I’m obviously still hoping to find a partner someday. But I think at this age, I’ve fully come to understand how important that is.
Maybe it’s an age thing 😅 the older you get, the more you kinda realise it takes so much more than just attraction, compatibility and love to actually build a life with someone.
Sorry for the long post. Just felt like airing this thought out to strangers makes sense atm. 😆
Serious question… do good people still exist on dating apps or should I keep scrolling? 😅❤️ I’m just asking because i doubt.