Psychology & Neurodiversity

Revenge is a waste of time, just unworth the people.

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Alot of people go on about emotional vulnerability and how some people struggle with it and whilst i agree to an extent i also believe emotional vulnerability is contingent on emotional safety. You can't have one without the other.
So whilst it easy to blame another person for not being emotionally vulnerable with you, its harder to look inwards and assess whether you provide enough emotional safety for the other person to do so.
Providing emotional safety imo is definitely a good topic to discuss when figuring out compatibility. As everyone in your life will provide you with a different level of safety, no two people are going to be the same.
And as for the trials and tribulations of marriage, spouses need to be able to hold space for each other to be brutally honest about what they believe to be the "right" choice. These decisions are going to impact the trajectory of your married life, some even impacting your kids or parents, so if you can't express your opinion without fear, how does the marriage remain healthy? If your spouse laughs whenever you fail, or shouts whenever you cry, it becomes a breeding ground for resentment, coldness and emotional unavailability.
FYI when people say im holding space for you, it usually translates to im giving you enough emotional safety for you to express how you truly feel without judgement.
Anywhoooo you can share your insights and thoughts, or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

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ُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَائِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ
“Every soul shall taste death.”
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sometimes i think our bodies were made with love in mind. the way your hand naturally settles into someone else’s. how perfectly fingers intertwine. how a hug somehow finds the exact place where your face belongs against another person’s neck. how easily your hands can hold someone’s face with such tenderness. it feels too perfectly designed to be meaningless. maybe we’re meant to hold each other. maybe we’re meant to love.

None of these items were on my shopping list before I entered the supermarket.
Are you deliberate or impulsive...
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No more loyalty or respect anymore, and humble times don’t exist anymore. This is the end for humanity.

Between wanting to give up and still having a feeling of curiosity....what about you...?

One thing I've come to believe is that the right person won't just fit into your life. They'll respect the life you're trying to build. What makes someone truly compatible with you?

Y'all that fall in love every market day, how do you do it? It takes a while before I find someone I genuinely connect with