Mental health

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If you have trauma, especially bad experiences with the opposite ***, please heal that trauma first. If you have trust issues with the opposite ***, please resolve those trust issues first. Why?

Do you realize that sometimes old wounds that haven’t healed can turn into anxiety and hesitation in moving forward? Sometimes unhealed trauma becomes a barrier to accepting good opportunities. People who are actually good end up looking gray in our eyes because of trust issues, because we’re still hesitant in accepting and deciding things when our emotional wounds haven’t healed. How do we do it?
Journal it. Write down our problem and think about its opposite.

Example:

I don’t trust the opposite *** because I’ve often been disappointed.

Also write its opposite:

I trust the opposite *** because I’m sure I won’t be disappointed again.

Write it, say it, and feel it repeatedly and consistently until you truly heal, and feel the difference.

Hope this helps.

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Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

🧠 We overthink everything. Ibrahim (AS) didn't. When the command came, he didn't try to negotiate the details or wonder how his life would survive it. 🧠
He didn't get stuck in his feelings or the logic of this world. He simply rested in one absolute truth: If it's Allah’s plan, I am safe. 🛡️
This wasn't just a test of sacrifice; it was a lesson in perspective. Ibrahim (AS) refused to micro-manage the temporary, painful details of his Dunya. Instead, he zoomed out to the ultimate big picture—the Akhirah. He understood that aligning his soul with eternal success was his only real direction, and the details of this world would naturally fall into place. 🗺️
And that is exactly what we are being asked to do this Dhul Hijjah. 🤍
Stop suffocating yourself by trying to control every outcome. Your career, your future, your worries—they are small details in Allah's grand design. Put your Akhirah first, surrender the Dunya, and trust the One who replaced the blade with a ram. 🐑

And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.”
— The Quran, Surah Ar-Rum 30:21

REASONS WHY "LAZY" PEOPLE OFTEN SEEM MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN DILIGENT PEOPLE

Many people think that success can only be achieved through relentless hard work. They wake up early, come home late, work overtime every day, and forget to enjoy life. But in reality, there are also people who appear relaxed, not overly busy, and are often even considered "lazy," but actually live freer and more financially successful lives. It's not that they're truly lazy. They just think differently.

1. They think about how to work once, and the results will continue to come. Intelligent thinkers usually don't like doing the same thing over and over. They prefer to create systems, businesses, or work methods that can produce results even when they're resting. They realize: Human energy is limited, but systems can work 24/7. Therefore, they focus more on building assets, businesses, investments, or opportunities that can generate income in the long term.

2. They don't pride themselves on appearing busy all the time. Many people feel cool if their lives are full of work and overtime. However, being busy doesn't necessarily mean success. People who think casually value time, health, and peace of mind more. They don't want to spend their lives working without enjoying the results. For them, success isn't about who's most tired, but who's most free.

3. They seek the most efficient way Because they dislike hassle and excessive fatigue, they're accustomed to seeking easier and quicker paths. From this habit, creative ideas, innovations, and solutions often emerge that make work easier while still producing maximum results. Sometimes people who are considered lazy are actually smarter at finding effective ways to work.

4. They prefer working smart over working hard Hard work is important, but without a strategy, a person can become constantly tired without making significant progress. People who think intelligently often ask themselves, "How can I achieve great results with more efficient energy?" They focus more on results, not just looking busy.

5. They quickly identify opportunities and gaps Because they dislike work that's too hard and repetitive, they're accustomed to finding new, more practical ways. They are more sensitive to opportunities: businesses that can be automated, jobs that can be made easier, technology that can help, or ways to make money more efficiently. That's why many great ideas come from people who don't like life to be too complicated.

🎉 Another year older, wiser, and stronger.
Grateful for every lesson, every blessing, and every moment that shaped me.
May this new chapter bring peace, success, happiness, and endless reasons to smile.
Alhamdulillah for everything. 💫🤍
Happy Birthday to Me. 🥳🎂

Assalamualaikum, may i sharing...

I was married for 4 years. Before that, I had never been close to a man in real life. I only focused on learning how to be a good wife, but I forgot to prepare my mind and heart for the unexpected.

I was completely shocked by the problems in a marriage with a manipulative man.
There was a time when I was so scared to meet people, even scared to look at myself in the mirror. But I learned from all of it. It wasn’t about what was wrong with me or what I lacked. I started focusing on loving myself and understanding that the way I was treated was a form of verbal abuse.

I’m a quiet person who rarely shares with others. I used to just try to look like I was okay, until I realized I needed to choose peace. I learned to ignore the negative voices about me and focus on making myself happy by listening only to the positive ones.

🌳If you've experienced something similar, I'd love to hear how you found peace again. What helped you most?

peace over everything ♥️♥️