Mental health

Had to unmatch with someone. This is devastating. I tried my best to be polite and gentle. I didn’t lead her on. Even though she did not react at me, I could (I think) feel the intense disappointment and anger she was feeling in every word she wrote towards the end.

Which strangely makes sense. Rejection is so hard.

After somewhat 400+ crosses, I came across someone’s profile whose bio really resonated with me. But I guess it was the same catch-22.

This is going much harder than I expected.

Let me talk about conflict between a man and a woman:

The women: you didn’t remember my birthday and brought a gift,you didn’t give me a massage before i slept last night.you didn’t prepare a breakfast last Friday morning when i was sick.i asked you to throw the trash but you didn’t. I needed a hug when i come back from work but you didn’t give me a hug.

The man:you called me and I come to you immediately when you said your tire punctured in the middle of the road i was at the restaurant when you called waiting to order food i left all that just to come help you fix the tire why you don’t appreciate the things i do why you always complain and nag about the things I don’t.

The women:is that a big deal after I go 9 months pregnant for your three kids is that what you want to be appreciated for just fixing a tire for me what else did you do?you are good for nothing.you never listen to me you always do you own things you care about yourself only you don’t care about me blah blah blah the women kept going and going none stop

Do men and women think differently and function differently when it comes to emotions and conflict

Good morning beautiful people 😍
Keep shine always where ever you are ✨
Keep your mental health ok
If you are not ok mentally so please use cloves water on empty stomach early morning and do exercise everyday

We cannot unlock a new door if our hands are full of old keys.

How wonderful it is to sleep with a heart free from hatred,

for this may be the greatest peace you can offer yourself before you offer it to others.

“In loneliness, the lonely one eats himself; in a crowd, the many eat him. Now choose.”

-Friedrich Nietzsche

I am prioritised without me ever having to ask
I am with a lover who communicates regularly and effortlessly
I am bound to a partner who is truly and fully committed
I am getting constant updates and affection from my lover
I am in a relationship of effortless love and connection

I am scared but I am fighting it

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