Ramadan

NOT EVERYTHING BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS AN AUDIENCE.

My dear brothers,🗣️🗣️

what is the point of making your wife feel loved in private, only to seek the whole world's attention before you feel appreciated?

Why must every beautiful moment be recorded?
Why must every gift be displayed?
Why must every act of kindness become a social media post?

Have we reached a point where loving our spouses privately is no longer enough?

Some husbands cannot buy their wives a gift without announcing it to the world. Some cannot take their wives somewhere beautiful without turning the moment into content. Others seem more concerned about people's reactions than the happiness of the woman standing beside them.

My brother,,🗣️🗣️

are you loving your wife, or are you performing marriage for an audience?

Listen carefully.

Not every beautiful thing needs a camera.

Not every act of kindness needs applause.

Not every private moment needs to become public entertainment.

Sometimes, the greatest acts of love happen behind closed doors, where nobody sees, nobody likes, nobody comments, and nobody celebrates.

A husband comforting his wife when she is struggling.

A husband helping her when she is exhausted.

A husband making her smile after a difficult day.

A husband protecting her dignity when she is not present.

A husband fulfilling his responsibilities without constantly reminding everyone what he has done.

These things may never trend on social media, but their value is not measured by likes and comments.

Allah knows what you do when the cameras are off.

My dear brothers, do not become so obsessed with convincing people that you are good husbands that you forget to actually be good husbands.

Love your wives sincerely.

Honour them privately and publicly when appropriate.

Protect their dignity.

Fulfil their rights.

Be gentle with them.

And remember that your marriage is an Amānah, not a social media project.

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:

“The best of you are the best to their wives.”

— Jāmiʿ at-Tirmidhī 3895

There is no need to turn every act of goodness into an announcement.

Let your character speak.

Let your home experience your kindness.

Let your wife feel your love even when nobody else knows what you have done.

And above all, seek the pleasure of Allah rather than the admiration of people.

A marriage does not become beautiful because the world admires it. It becomes beautiful when the people inside it experience mercy, respect, loyalty, affection, and tranquillity.

May Allah grant us sincerity, protect our marriages from showing off, purify our intentions, and make our homes places of love, mercy, and tranquillity.

May Allah guide us to follow the beautiful teachings of our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and accept our righteous deeds.

Āmīn, Yā Rabb.

Allah knows best.

Would you choose a peaceful life over an exciting one?

If Allah keeps allowing you to wake up for Tahajjud, never take that blessing for granted. Perhaps there are beautiful things waiting for you that only He knows. So keep answering His call, keep making dua, and never lose hope in His mercy. 🥹🤍

How's everyone doing today?

You deserve better.

Pray Tahajjud, make Istikharah, then leave it to Allah. If it is written for you by Qadar, no distance, no time, and no person can stop it from finding its way back to you....🥹❤️

Assalamualaikum,
Need a serious relationship,, for the rest of my life.

Jummah Mubaraka to everyone around the world! 🌎😊

🌿🤍 The Approaching Winter | A Season of Worship and Spiritual Preparation

As winter approaches, the days grow shorter and the nights longer, offering a beautiful opportunity to devote more time to worship and draw closer to Allah.

The righteous predecessors recognised the blessings of this season.

It is narrated that Ubayd ibn Umayr would say upon the arrival of winter:

“O people of the Qur’an, the night has grown long for your prayers, and the day has grown short for your fasting. So seize the opportunity.”

What a beautiful reminder to make the most of our time through voluntary fasting, night prayers, Qur’an recitation, remembrance, and sincere supplication.

And there is another beautiful reason to begin preparing now: Ramadan is only about 100 days away. 🌙

In approximately 40 days, we expect to welcome Rajab, one of the four sacred months. Then comes Sha’ban, the month in which deeds are raised to the Lord of the worlds, as mentioned in the Prophetic tradition.

And then, by Allah’s mercy, comes the blessed month of Ramadan.

Do not wait until Ramadan to cultivate the devotion you hope to experience within it.

Begin now. Strengthen your prayers, deepen your relationship with the Qur’an, increase your remembrance of Allah, and gradually establish the habits of worship you wish to carry into Ramadan.

For every day is an opportunity to draw closer to Allah, and every sincere act of worship is an investment in the Hereafter.

🤍 O Allah, allow us to reach Ramadan in good health and steadfast faith. Help us prepare for it with sincere hearts, devotion, and righteous deeds, and make us among those who attain Your mercy, forgiveness, and acceptance.

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🌿🤍 الشتاء يقترب | موسمٌ لاغتنام الطاعات والاستعداد لرمضان

مع اقتراب الشتاء، يقصر النهار ويطول الليل، وتتهيّأ للمؤمن فرصةٌ جميلة للإكثار من الطاعات، والتقرّب إلى الله بصالح الأعمال.

وقد كان السلف الصالح يستبشرون بهذا الموسم، ويستثمرون أوقاته في العبادة.

رُوي عن عُبيد بن عُمير رحمه الله أنه كان يقول إذا جاء الشتاء:

«يا أهل القرآن، طال الليل لصلاتكم، وقصر النهار لصيامكم، فاغتنموا».

فما أجمل أن نجعل من طول الليل فرصةً للقيام والمناجاة، ومن قِصَر النهار عونًا على صيام التطوّع، وأن نعمر أوقاتنا بتلاوة القرآن، والذكر، والاستغفار، والدعاء.

والأجمل أن أمامنا موسمًا عظيمًا يستحق أن نستعدّ له من الآن؛ فلم يبقَ على شهر رمضان المبارك سوى نحو مئة يوم. 🌙

وقبل رمضان، نستقبل بإذن الله شهر رجب بعد نحو أربعين يومًا، وهو أحد الأشهر الحُرُم التي عظّمها الله.

ثم يأتي شهر شعبان، الذي أخبر النبي ﷺ أنه شهرٌ تُرفع فيه الأعمال إلى رب العالمين، وكان يُكثر فيه من الصيام.

ثم يُقبل علينا، بفضل الله ورحمته، شهر رمضان المبارك.

فلماذا ننتظر دخول رمضان لنبدأ الاستقامة على الطاعات التي نرجو المداومة عليها فيه؟

ابدأ من الآن، وحافظ على صلاتك، واجعل للقرآن وردًا لا ينقطع، وأكثِر من الذكر والاستغفار، وعوّد نفسك على الصيام والقيام، ولو بالقليل الذي تستطيع المداومة عليه.

فالعمر يمضي، والأيام تنقضي، وما أجمل أن نغتنم ما بقي منها فيما ينفعنا عند لقاء الله.

ولا تستصغر عملًا صالحًا، فربّ حسنةٍ تراها يسيرةً اليوم، تجد ثوابها عظيمًا في ميزانك يوم القيامة.

🤍 اللهم بلّغنا رمضان ونحن في صحةٍ وعافية، وإيمانٍ وثبات، وأعنّا على الاستعداد له بقلوبٍ صادقة، ونفوسٍ مقبلةٍ على طاعتك، ووفّقنا فيه للصيام والقيام وتلاوة القرآن، واجعلنا من عبادك المقبولين، ولا تحرمنا واسع فضلك وعظيم رحمتك.

آمين يا رب العالمين. 🤲

What’s the kindest thing anyone has ever said to you that you still remember?