Single Parents

Hey dear

“I’m not searching for many people—just one heart that understands mine.”

Feeling sad 😔

Gi

Nairobi ❤️

Separation is a cure for some intractable problems. We were created to be a couple, a man and a woman. After healing, we must choose the right man or woman for the rest of our lives. I am a man, and I am looking for the right woman. I live in Germany.

“I stopped expecting forever from people who couldn’t even give me honesty.”

Feeling so depressed 😔

Assalamu alaikum everyone,
Having gone through a divorce myself and experienced the low frequency days where your reflections and hopes slowly eats you up, the loneliness - that void that you stare into when no human you interact with is watching.
I found sound mind and eventual direction for my thoughts and subconscious mind by evaluating my mental health, seeking counselling and accepting the limitations of what makes me human was a big part “putting in the work” to get back on track alhumdulillah.

When I read through posts on this app it’s easy to identify who has actively taken a path of post-divorce rehabilitation rather than use their everyday child responsibility grind as an easy band-aid or a “systemic distraction” for their emotional trauma from a break up.

What are your thoughts on this? And if anyone has done the work, what has rehabilitation changed for you within? I’m not talking the tawakkul, salaah, Qur’an or yaqeen aspect of personal development- this is purely a psycho-emotional discussion.

Assalamu alaikum to all single parents... I pray that you all will soon find your soulmate, including myself.. ameen

Add me everyone