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In Islam, guidance (hudā, هدى) ultimately comes from Allah. The Qur’an repeatedly teaches that Allah guides people to the truth, while human beings are responsible for seeking, accepting, and following that guidance.
Sources of Guidance in Islam
- The Qur’an
The Qur’an describes itself as a guidance for humanity:
“This is the Book about which there is no doubt, a guidance for the God-conscious.”
— Quran 2:22. The Sunnah of the Prophet
The teachings and example of Prophet Muhammad explain and demonstrate how to live according to the Qur’an.
- Reason and Reflection
The Qur’an frequently calls people to think, reflect, and observe the signs of Allah in creation.
- Prayer and Seeking Allah’s Help
Muslims ask for guidance in every unit of prayer through Surah Al-Fatihah:
“Guide us to the straight path.”
Different Aspects of Guidance
Islamic scholars often distinguish between:
Guidance of explanation and direction (irshād): showing people the truth through revelation and teaching.
Guidance of success and acceptance (tawfīq): Allah enabling a person to embrace and follow the truth sincerely.
Qualities That Help a Person Receive Guidance
Sincerity
Humility
Repentance
Seeking knowledge
Acting upon what one already knows
Keeping righteous company
A Supplication for Guidance
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ would sometimes say:
“O Allah, I ask You for guidance, piety, chastity, and contentment.”
In Islam, guidance is not viewed as a one-time event but as a continuous journey. Even believers continually ask Allah for guidance because faith, understanding, and righteous conduct all require ongoing divine help.
Surah Az-Zumar (الزمر) is the 39th chapter of the Qur’an. The name Az-Zumar means “The Groups” or “The Multitudes,” referring to the groups of people who will be led to Paradise and Hell on the Day of Judgment.
Basic Information
Surah Number: 39
Verses (Ayat): 75
Revelation: Meccan (mostly revealed in (Makkah)
Main Themes:
Sincerity in worship (ikhlāṣ)
The oneness of Allah (tawḥīd)
Refutation of idolatry
Repentance and Allah’s mercy
Resurrection and the Day of Judgment
The ultimate fate of believers and disbelievers
One of the Most Famous Verses
Allah says:
“Say, ‘O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.’”
— Surah Az-Zumar 39:53
This verse is often cited as one of the strongest expressions of hope and repentance in the Qur’an.
The End of the Surah
The concluding verses (39:71–75) vividly describe:
The disbelievers being driven to Hell in groups.
The righteous being welcomed into Paradise in groups.
The angels glorifying Allah around His Throne as judgment is completed.
Sunan Tirmidhi 11:62
“The best of you are those who are best to their women (or wives), and I am the best of you to my women (or wives).”
The hadith emphasizes that a person’s character is not measured only by public acts of worship or reputation, but also by how they treat the people closest to them. It encourages:
Kindness, respect, and compassion toward women.
Good manners and patience within the family.
Fair and honorable treatment of one’s spouse.
Recognizing that true virtue is reflected in everyday behavior at home.
The broader message is that excellence in character begins with how we treat those who are most vulnerable to our conduct and who know us best. In Islamic ethics, good treatment of family members is considered a sign of strong faith and noble character.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I'm trying to take it easy and get to know the person but most men want everything fast especially see more than they can...I don't know what's going on 😔
The 99 Names of Allâh
63 — Al-Qayyum اَلْقَيُّومُ
The Self-Sustaining The Sustainer of All Du'ấ:
Yā Qayyum, You are the sustainer of everything.
I ask You to sustain my faith, my health, and my family. Grant me steadfastness in times of trial
and never let my feet slip from
Your path." Âmin
Reflection:
Allãh Subhanahu wa Ta'ală is Al-Qayyüm,
the One Who sustains all creation perfectly
without fatigue.
Let's rely completely upon Him, seeking strength, stability, and guidance from the One Who holds all things in perfect order.
Revert here. After surviving the war zone known as “Jamaa”, I’ve come to conquer the final boss: marriage. If you’re interested in marriage and don’t mind teaching a revert about deen, I’d love to hear from you. 😅
Assalamoalekom,
Growing up without parents teaches a man to be strong and independent, but it also comes with challenges that many people do not see. When it comes to finding a life partner, men without family support often face a harder journey. They may not have parents to introduce them to people, give advice, or help build trust between families.
Men who have a close family often have a support system during important stages of life. Those without one must navigate many of these challenges alone.
Alhamdulillah, every situation has its own tests and blessings. We keep moving forward, trusting Allah’s plan and doing our best to build a good future.
What are your thoughts on this?
Chapter: Will the number of men be more in Paradise, or the number of women?
Will the number of men be more in Paradise, or the number of women?
From the above discussion, it is understood that women will be the majority of the people of Hell. This does not mean that the number of women in Paradise will be less. In fact, the number of women in Paradise, including the Hurris, will be more. Of course, it is also true that most of the women in the world will be the people of Hell.
The Holy Prophet (PBUH) said, “The utensils of the people of Paradise (in Paradise) will be made of gold, and their sweat will be fragrant like musk. For each of them, there will be two wives whose beauty will pierce their flesh and reveal the marrow of their ankle bones.” (Bukhari-Muslim)
Therefore, the number of women in Paradise will be twice as many as the number of men. And in Hell, the number of women will be more than the number of men. However, they will all be girls from the world.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “The worst of your women are those who are shameless, arrogant, and hypocritical, and among them will be like crows with red lips and feet.” (Bayhaqi)
It is thought that this category of women is more numerous in the world. Furthermore, the reason why women will go to Hell in large numbers is not less among them.
Once the Prophet (peace be upon him) said (addressing women), “O women! Give charity and seek forgiveness more. For I have seen you as the majority of the people of Hell.” A woman asked, “What is the reason why we are the majority of the people of Hell? O Messenger of Allah!” He said, “You curse a lot and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone who has more influence over a wise man than you, despite being imperfect in intellect and religion.” The woman asked again, What is the deficiency in intellect and religion? He said, “The testimony of two women is equal to the testimony of one man. During the days (of childbirth and menstruation) a woman stops praying.” (Muslim) The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “I saw that most of the inhabitants of Hell are women.” The companions asked, “What is that for, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their disbelief.” They said, “Disbelief in Allah?” He said, “(No, they are ungrateful to their husbands and are forbidden to eat salt. If you do good to one of them all your life, then if he finds a little fault in you, he will say, ‘I have not seen any good in you!’” (Bukhari, Muslim)
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I have never seen any girl who didn't demand that the guy should be well settled.
The question is how can someone be well settled so soon after his study if he is not born with silver spoon in mouth.
You should find you soulmate and then both can exceed together or he can exceed in your presence and eventually he will praise your support whole life.
Focus on mentality, vibes , character and understandings.