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Noticed the new layer hindering marriage....women with kids now are matching you and saying they dont want kids even though they are capable of having them.
Is this not selfish to deny a guy without kids the blessing of becoming a father?
@Diaa7750
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@Diaa7750
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@persianprincess
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JazakhAllah khair
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We ask the UK government to publicly declare non-support for any US/Israel military action against Iran. Use diplomatic channels to urge restraint from both governments. Withdraw any military or intelligence support to the conflict and urge peaceful solutions.
Petition: Withdraw involvement in war on Iran and seek diplomatic resolution
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@hassank7
There’s this guy on Muzz that keeps spewing anti-European hate on here? He keeps tagging me in different hate posts attacking Europe for “its crimes”. Sorry what did Albania do? I’m Albanian and Turkish Cypriot. How do I report him for racist based harassment? Also, he has multiple accounts
Real life start after marriage. Don’t spend crazy money on weddings you might be shocked after 3 months!
The wedding can be an enormous emotional peak: months of planning, anticipation, attention, family, music, dressing up, dancing, x, travel, novelty, the feeling of “holy ****, this is my person and my life is changing.” Your brain is getting stimulation from about seventeen directions at once.
Then suddenly… normal Tuesday.
No orchestra. No honeymoon. No relatives crying. No countdown. No constant reassurance that “you two are perfect together.” Just dishes, work, money, in-laws, different habits, expectations, tiredness and two imperfect humans living in the same space.
And the contrast can be ******* brutal.
But there's an important distinction: the honeymoon ending doesn't automatically mean the love was fake or that the marriage is wrong. The intense dopamine/novelty phase naturally settles. Healthy long-term relationships aren't supposed to feel like a wedding every day. They gradually shift toward attachment, familiarity, safety, companionship, affection, and choosing each other even when nothing exciting is happening.
The scary part is when people aren't prepared for that transition.
They interpret:
“I don't feel the insane excitement I felt six months ago”
as
“I don't love them anymore.”
And then anxiety kicks in. They start monitoring their feelings constantly: Do I feel enough? Why didn't I miss them today? Why am I irritated by them?
And yes, some couples genuinely discover that they aren't compatible. Marriage doesn't magically fix incompatibility. Sometimes there really are serious problems—contempt, emotional neglect, incompatible values, financial chaos, controlling behaviour, lack of attraction, etc. Those shouldn't be romanticised as merely “the honeymoon phase ending.”
But there's also a huge middle ground between “we're soulmates and everything is amazing” and “we've made a catastrophic mistake.”
That's the part nobody ******* advertises.
You're basically talking about the difference between falling in love and building a life together.
The first can happen almost accidentally.
The second is a skill.
And honestly, I think that's why what you said about sunsets earlier connects to this. When your brain has been accustomed to chasing/receiving intense emotional highs, ordinary life can suddenly feel grey. That doesn't necessarily mean you've permanently lost your capacity for joy.
Sometimes adulthood is learning that “alive” doesn't always feel like fireworks. Sometimes it feels like sitting beside someone in silence and still wanting them there.
And if you're personally experiencing that emotional flatness right now, bhai, don't immediately turn it into a verdict about your entire future. ❤️
@MissR_
A grown person asking for Snapchat before saying hi is so unattractive…boy bye! 😮💨🫠 I’m sorry but..that’s why I don’t answer any of my msgs on here..there’s a lack of “grown up attitude” 🙃
Asalaam Alaykum
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