Muslims in the UK

Is it just me or is anyone else struggling to find someone who is genuinely serious about marriage on this app?

Any tips on how to filter out the non-serious people? They pretend to be serious at the beginning and tell you what you want to hear…

Getting used to the idea of not finding a match.

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Hi

I think the worst behaviour is when people constantly go on TikTok Live for the wrong reasons. The amount of inappropriate and degrading content I’ve come across is honestly disappointing.

If someone is constantly seeking validation from strangers through battles, begging for gifts, or relying on virtual attention to feel valued, it’s probably best to keep your distance. In my opinion, there’s no point marrying someone who constantly needs validation and attention from strangers online. People who thrive on that kind of attention can often bring unnecessary drama and negativity into a relationship

This is advice for the brothers and sisters reaching 30 or above, inshallah I pray my post helps at least one person. A situation came up I shared my advice and want to share with you all bismillah

we are fortunate to have these online platforms, but we have become weak we have used these apps believing we’re spoilt with options. That’s why marriage seems to always be delayed.

How many brothers/sisters use muzz, Salams other apps they can’t stick to one app. Here’s the issue we believe we can find more potential on other platforms and it’s not true.

That one man/woman she’s bubbly, easy to talk to someone who you enjoy speaking to has potential, which you have neglected. The conversation goes good for a day or two and then you’re still just flicking through different apps thinking about those potentials you can find and neglect a person who has great qualities you lost a potential by not giving it a chance.

This is the day an age we’re in where we think we’re privileged with options and that’s now right way to find someone.

There might be those there who are talking to more than 1 person but you must ask yourself can you share your efforts equally between them if not then it’s not a fair way to find a partner.

I share this because I had this immature mindset and if someone had been honest about how I approached finding a partner to marry wallah I would have changed.

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