Muslims in the UK

What would you rate living in leicester /10?

I'm hearing its a proper poophole but can't be that bad compared to London right?

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Is it common for sisters to chat with you everyday / regularly on WhatsApp and irl, but refuse to let you follow them on Instagram?

This is something I've noticed a few potentials do.

ASalamualikum I want to know how do u experience people on this app are seriously want to marry ..??

Assalamu Alaikum,

I find it difficult and uncomfortable to keep viewing non-mahram sisters’ profiles, so I am posting this with sincere intentions. I am looking for a serious marriage and would like to connect with someone in the UK, Europe, or the USA who is genuinely seeking a spouse for the sake of Allah.

I am 25 years old, financially stable, and committed to improving my deen. I hope to find a modest, practicing sister who is religiously active and wants to grow together in faith, support one another, and strive for a righteous Islamic life. I would love a marriage built on sincerity, mutual respect, and shared goals, including performing Umrah whenever possible.

I was previously married for a short period. From that marriage, I have a son who currently lives with his mother. In the future, I would like to bring my son closer to me and hope to find a spouse who would be kind, caring, and willing to treat him with genuine love and compassion. His well-being is very important to me, and I never want him to feel hurt or neglected.

Whatever happened in the past is in the past. I have learned valuable lessons from my previous experience and am looking forward to building a peaceful, stable, and God-conscious future with the right person.

If you are serious about marriage and believe we may be compatible, please feel free to get in touch.

JazakAllahu Khairan.

Looking for new friends in Manchester or uk

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heyy i just make this account yesterday, and i hope i can find my halal partner here☺️☺️

Brother, leave the girl alone and give her some advice. Don't hurt her with your words. She's divorced and separated, it's none of your business. Brother, your curiosity is hurtful. If you don't want to talk to her, leave her alone. Don't ask questions like you're some kind of sick, psychologically disturbed person.

The Illusion of Ownership: Man lives under the delusion that he "owns" his limbs.

Ibn 'Arabi posits that everything in creation possesses a form of consciousness relative to its state.

Your hands and feet are inherently in a state of absolute submission (Islam) to God. They only complied with your sins in this world because God forced them to submit to your temporary free will as a test.

The Return to the Absolute: On the Day of Judgment, that artificial lease of control expires.

The limbs return to their natural state of direct allegiance to Divine Truth (Al-Haqq). They do not "betray" you; they simply stop pretending to belong to you.Manifestation of the Unseen (Al-Ghayb):

next world is a realm where thoughts, intentions, and deeds take on physical forms. The "testimony" of the hands is actually the outward blooming of their energetic history. If a hand stole, it radiates the dark energy of theft; if it gave charity, it radiates light (Nur).

People can have *thousands of followers, look beautiful, seem popular, and still feel deeply lonely because online clout is NOT social connection — it’s attention, not attachment.
And yes, Instagram + LinkedIn have turned human beings into a marketplace of looks, achievements, and validation, which makes loneliness even worse.

Below is the full behavioural‑psychology breakdown — structured, deep, and tailored to how you think — with Guided Links so you can explore any part.

⭐ Why people with clout are still lonely

This is the part most people don’t understand:
Followers ≠ friends. Attention ≠ intimacy. Engagement ≠ belonging.

Here are the actual behavioural mechanisms.

1. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Parasocial attention</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> — people “see” you but don’t </CUSTOM_BOLD>know<CUSTOM_BOLD> you

Followers give:

• -likes
• -comments
• -DMs
• -admiration

But they don’t give:

• -emotional support
• -companionship
• -shared experiences
• -real connection

It’s visibility without intimacy.

2. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Social comparison overload</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> — pretty people compete in a beauty marketplace

Instagram creates a market:

• -looks
• -lifestyle
• -aesthetics
• -clout
• -status

Every pretty person sees:

• -someone prettier
• -someone richer
• -someone more aesthetic
• -someone more followed

This creates constant insecurity, even for the beautiful ones.

3. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Validation addiction</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> — likes replace real connection

People chase:

• -likes
• -views
• -comments
• -followers

But these are dopamine hits, not relationships.

It’s like eating sugar instead of food.

4. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Loneliness paradox</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> — more online presence = less offline connection

People spend:

• -hours curating posts
• -hours scrolling
• -hours replying
• -hours comparing

But less time:

• -meeting friends
• -building community
• -forming relationships

Online popularity drains offline life.

5. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Attention ≠ affection</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>

People confuse:

• -attention → “people care about me”
• -affection → “people love me”

Attention is cheap.
Affection is rare.

Most influencers have the first, not the second.

6. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Identity fragmentation</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>

People build:

• -an online persona
• -an offline self

The gap between the two creates:

• -emotional dissonance
• -loneliness
• -confusion
• -insecurity

They feel known but not understood.

⭐ Why girls get attention “for free” (behaviourally, not stereotypically)

I’ll explain this without stereotyping, just pure behavioural economics.

1. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Male attention bias</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>

Men initiate more:

• -follows
• -likes
• -DMs
• -comments

This is a documented behavioural pattern across platforms.

So women receive more unsolicited attention, even without effort.

2. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Female competition is aesthetic</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>

Women compete through:

• -beauty
• -style
• -lifestyle
• -aesthetics

This creates the “marketplace” feeling you described.

3. </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Male competition is effort-based</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>

Men compete through:

• -messaging
• -following
• -initiating
• -chasing

So yes — men send more follow requests.

This is behavioural, not moral.

⭐ Why clout doesn’t fix loneliness

Because loneliness is about:

• -attachment
• -belonging
• -emotional intimacy
• -shared reality
• -trust
• -stability

Clout gives:

• -attention
• -visibility
• -ego boosts
• -dopamine
• -status

These are not the same currency.

⭐ The REAL truth

People online are:

• -hyper-visible
• -hyper-validated
• -hyper-compared
• -hyper-distracted
• -hyper-lonely

Social media creates:

• -markets
• -competition
• -attention economies
• -status hierarchies

But not connection*.

You’re not imagining it — the whole system is designed this way.