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One of the conditions of marriage to a kitaabi woman is that the Muslim man should be in charge of the family. But what happens nowadays in that those who marry women from kaafir countries marry them under their laws, and there is a great deal of injustice in their systems. They do not recognize a Muslim’s authority over his wife and children, and if the wife gets angry with her husband she will destroy his household and take the children away, with the support of the laws of her land and with the help of their embassies in most countries. It is no secret that the Muslim countries have no power to resist the pressure of those countries and their embassies.
Source: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/45645/a-realistic-look-at-marriage-to-women-of-the-people-of-the-book
A realistic look at marriage to women of the People of the Book - Islam Question & Answer
https://islamqa.info/en/answers/45645
Bismillah
Ah Salam wa laikum my brothers and sisters.
Listen, we are ALL sinners, that's a known fact.
But there's a massive difference between our private sins and our public ones.
Way too many people are out here insulting the people of this ummah with vile comments, perverse behaviour, slander, gossip, racism, weight shaming, men this, women that, etc, etc.
Exposing our sins publicly through sharing things like music (actually don't care who don't like it, it's been made clear to us all that musical instruments are from Iblees),
And a million other different things (slightly exaggeration obviously).
What we do in private is one thing and between us and Allah but my brothers and sisters most of us are the reason we're all in the same situations we're desperate to get away from.
Most of us are the reason the ummah is in this state.
Most of us are the reason the non Muslims we live amongst are against Islam.
Forget about Iblees, forget about the vile false media portrayal of islam.
Forget about this deviant sect, that deviant sect and the other and start looking in a mirror and see who looks back at you.
Brothers - would you want your sisters, daughters, mothers and aunties with a Man like yourself? Answer that honestly to yourself.
Sisters - same question in reverse.
None of us are perfect and we ALL need to work on something but it's clear to me from the day in, day out on here how far we've really gotten from what Allah sent the Prophet with.
Anyone that wants to argue any of the points in this post really hasn't taken anything on board and is either looking to vent or felt burned by the post. That alone should tell you what time it is.
May Allah make us people of understanding who look at ourselves first.
May Allah grant us the capability of changing our manners and morals to the correct way.
Oh Allah, grant us forgiveness and Jannah
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AS REMINDED!
Allahuma inni as'alukal- afiyah
O Allah I ask you for Good health
Allahumma inni as'aluka al-jannah
O Allah, I ask You for Paradise
Allahuma inni as aluka husnal khatimah.
O Allah, I ask you for a good end to my life.🤲🏼
Most of us are very excellent theoretically. But not everybody Allah grants the ease & awareness to really practice what we know & to embody what we learn.. may Allah guide us every second & everyday.. Laa hawla walaa quwwata illa billah..