Muslims in London

Modern family vs Islamic family
After marriage in Modern family both husband and wife share all responsibilities equally and they follow 50-50 rules in every financial matters.

In Islamic family, Husband takes all outside responsibility including all financial matters, without following 50-50 rules. And wife takes all household responsibilities.

What's your take on both family style? Which one you are gonna follow and why?

I talked about finances previous post to get an idea around if both partners should work or it only should be the man responsibility. What do you guys think about it. Because really and truly to have a family of 1 you’ll need to earn 100k combined before tax roughly 3k a month each after tax.

Why are the men in London such princesses and expect the woman to come to them.

Please boys man up and travel to the woman.

I am divorced 28 years old no kids and have found someone who is also divorced; he has children and looks after them full-time because his ex-wife does not keep in touch with them. I informed my family that I had found someone who has children, but they are not allowing me to speak with him. Also I told my friends about him , they are not allowed me to speak he is very nice and good person ..but I like him What should I do now—continue talking to him or cut off contact?

I need life Partner My country Pakistan age 33 City LAHORE

Salaam, this is a tough one and has required quite a lot of introspection. I seem to keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. I know this because I've done a lot of work on recognising my attachment style and understanding where it comes from. I've also worked through much of the trauma from my childhood, adolescence and divorce with a counsellor.

But despite all that, I can't seem to escape this pattern. I usually recognise emotionally unavailable men fairly quickly, yet they still seem to be the ones I'm most drawn to — and, interestingly, they tend to be the men who are confident, aren't afraid to be themselves, and aren't as constrained by cultural expectations.
Those are all qualities that I'm genuinely attracted to. The problem is that these same men often turn out to be commitment-phobes.

So, I'm left wondering: why do I keep attracting these types of men? Is there something I'm doing that draws them in, or is it more about the fact that I'm particularly attracted to certain qualities that happen to overlap with emotional unavailability?

A simple man with a sincere heart, looking for a meaningful connection that leads to a beautiful marriage, InshaAllah. 🤍🤲

Muzz experiences can be truly strange sometimes 😂🤢

I’m curious to hear your honest thoughts. When you’re looking for a potential spouse, how do you deal with people who make inappropriate or bizarre requests right from the beginning?

I believe the best thing is to keep your boundaries clear, block what is inappropriate, and not let negative experiences stop you from believing that genuine people still exist.

Marriage apps may have their “freak show” moments 😅, but hopefully there are still sincere people looking for something real, respectful and halal.

What’s the strangest or most unexpected experience you’ve had on a Muslim marriage app? 😂

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Hi everyone 👋
Just here to meet good people and see where life takes us.
Deen + Respect + Good vibes = Me
What about you?