All things marriage
13,000,879 members
Marriage is half our Deen 🤲 From wedding planning to relationship and marriage advice, share all your marriage related experiences here with our friendly community ❤️
It’s scary most people I see want to marry and have children immediately. Why not give it sometime to find mutual understanding?
I believe that maturity begins with accepting that we also have some "toxic behavior" & not only the others.
Then the journey will be long & difficult for some of us. Knowing the roots of that behavior then trying to heal them, is mostly a psychological dilemma!
May God help us all!
Go on, greet women with “hey dear” “hey beautiful” “hey 😘😍” “mashaallah pretty 😍” etc.
As if-me, at least would answer happily? What did you expect, a flirtatious response? No, I dont answer flirty men nor I’m happy being treated like that. Lower your gaze, also there are billions of respectful ways on how to greet a woman properly.
What is it with these flirty humans catcalling strangers online? Bored with life?
What's meant for you will find you, at the right time. Until then, keep trusting Allah.
اللَّهُمْ
Ya Allah, I keep asking You for ease, peace, and halal rizq.
Anyone who seeks to take away my well-being, disturb my peace, or lead me away from what is good for me, please divert them far from me.
Protect my heart, guard my path, and surround me with people who bring goodness, sincerity, and blessings into my life and me to theirs,
Ameen Ya’Rabil’Alameen
If you want a serious relationship and marriage, send me a message. ??💘💍
Before getting married, there are several important things every Muslim should know:
- Marriage is an act of worship, not just a relationship
Marriage is not only about love, beauty, or companionship. It is a means of obeying Allah, protecting one's chastity, and building a righteous family.
Allah says:
"And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy."
(Qur'an 30:21)
This shows that the purpose of marriage is tranquility, love, and mercy.
- Choose a spouse based on religion and character
Good looks, wealth, and status may fade, but good character and piety remain.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
"A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religion. Choose the one with religion, may your hands be rubbed with dust."
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)
The same principle applies when choosing a husband.
- Marriage comes with rights and responsibilities
Marriage is not only about what you receive; it is also about what you give. Both husband and wife have rights that must be fulfilled with kindness, patience, and respect.
- No spouse is perfect
Many people enter marriage expecting perfection and become disappointed. Every person has strengths and weaknesses. A successful marriage requires patience, forgiveness, and understanding.
- Rizq, children, and happiness are from Allah
Do not marry someone believing they alone will make you happy. True happiness comes from Allah. Your spouse is a means, not the source.
- Learn the Islamic rulings of marriage
Before marriage, learn about:
The rights of the husband.
The rights of the wife.
Mahr (dowry).
Good treatment.
Conflict resolution.
Raising righteous children.
Knowledge before marriage helps prevent many problems after marriage.
In simple words: Before getting married, know why you are marrying, choose a righteous spouse, learn the rights and responsibilities of marriage, understand that nobody is perfect, and place your trust in Allah. A marriage built upon Islam is more likely to be blessed with peace, mercy, and stability.
May Allāh ﷻ make Nīkah easy for us and grant us the best timing, and gives us our heart desire. Amen 🤲
Raja Raad ✍
Is there still true love? I'm losing hope 🥹