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Y’all men can’t  lie to me in this dating app Muzz and I’m smarter than you lol 😂 and I know when a men lying and they not telling their self the truth and y’all can’t even scammer me at all because I’m really smart women and I do a background check too because y’all playing games in this dating app Muzz because y’all ain’t serious about getting married to nobody because I know that what y’all want from us women😂😂😂😂
"May Allah bless your marriage, fill it with barakah, and keep your hearts united until you reach Jannah."
Recently saw a post of a person saying men who have high values don't use muzz or other dating apps for relationships it's mean people who are on this app have no high values including her also🤣
hi all, I’d like to ask you this with all humility. Is it true that women with mental health issues like me can’t be happy?
And that we don’t deserve to be loved?…
I’m afraid I’d only be a burden to the world. Meanwhile, in my own world, I’d feel truly alone even if I were surrounded by a thousand or even a million people. No matter what, I’d still feel lonely…:)
🍁 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒄𝒕 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝑯𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕, 𝑵𝒐𝒕 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝑬𝒈𝒐 🍁
After spending almost 5 years on marriage apps, one lesson continues to repeat itself.
In the beginning, many people will show effort.
The messages are frequent. The attention is consistent. The interest seems clear. But time is a remarkable filter. Because eventually effort reveals intention.
Some people are genuinely seeking marriage. Others are simply enjoying the attention, the validation, or the comfort of keeping someone in an endless "getting to know you" stage with no real direction.
And that is why I have learned something important:
Don't chase.
Observe.
Observe consistency.
Observe actions.
Observe whether the effort remains balanced after the excitement of the beginning fades. Because words are easy.
Intentions are proven through consistency.
سبحان اللہ, I've often noticed that when I seem less interested, the effort increases. But when genuine interest is shown, the effort sometimes decreases.
This is why we should never become emotionally attached too quickly. Protect your heart. Not because people are evil. But because not everyone who enters your life is meant to stay. And not everyone who speaks about marriage is truly prepared for it.
The greatest mistake is allowing someone to occupy your heart before they have earned a place in your future. Instead, focus on improving yourself. Focus on your relationship with Allah ﷻ. Focus on becoming the person you would want your future spouse to find.
Because Allah ﷻ is Al-'Aleem. He knows what is hidden in hearts. If someone's intentions are not sincere, Allah ﷻ will eventually reveal their true colours. If someone is not written for you, Allahﷻ will remove them from your path. And if someone is written for you, no force in this world can take them away.
Allah ﷻ says:
﴿ وَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ ﴾
"Perhaps you dislike a thing while it is good for you." (Qur'an 2:216)
Many people today make haram easy and halal difficult. They speak about marriage, yet avoid commitment. They speak about seriousness, yet avoid responsibility. They speak about making things halal, yet continue prolonging uncertainty. This is one of the saddest realities of our time.
Yet Islam, in its perfection, protects hearts, protects dignity, and protects relationships through clear boundaries and sincere intentions.
To those who are striving to remain patient and preserve their hearts for the sake of Allah ﷻ:
I see you.
I understand how difficult it can be.
I am walking that journey too.
But never forget:
Allahﷻ can open doors from places we never expected.
﴿ وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ ﴾
"And He will provide for him from where he does not expect." (Qur'an 65:3)
Trust Allahﷻ.
Protect your heart.
Stay sincere.
And remember that every act of patience, every sacrifice for the sake of halal, and every tear shed out of fear of Allah ﷻ is known to Him.
Nothing is lost with Allahﷻ.
May Allah ﷻ grant us spouses who are sincere, consistent, intentional, and serious about making things halal.
May He ﷻ protect our hearts from disappointment, guide us toward what is best for our dunya and akhirah, and bless us with spouses who choose us every day through both words and actions.
آمين.