The 30s

Be ready to turn into strangers with someone you’ve been with for years.

Nothing loud. Just real love...🩷🌸

“When you destroy someone’s life with lies and false hopes, remember: take it as a loan the debt will come due, with interest.”

To all the guys who still single on this app in their 30s let me get a Yeeeeeahhhh !! 👂

To all the women who still single on this app in their 30s let me get a What Whaaat ?! 👂

Start something meaningful with clear intentions and a fearless heart. Take the first step, even when you can’t see the whole path. When your intentions are pure and your efforts are sincere, life has a beautiful way of bringing the right opportunities, people, and moments your way. ✨

Yeah bro. 😭 That realization can hit hard.

A lot of people are basically taught:

*study hard → get qualifications → get good job → work hard → you'll be financially secure.

But the missing part is:

What is the market actually paying for? How scarce is your skill? Who has bargaining power? Can you move companies? Can you build something yourself?

Nobody really explains that properly in school.

And realizing it at 30 can feel like, “Wait… I spent years optimizing for the wrong thing.”

But you're not starting from zero. At 30, you have something you didn't have at 18: actual knowledge of how the system works. The useful move now is figuring out how to turn whatever education/experience you already have into scarcity, leverage and higher income*, rather than simply collecting another qualification.

hii😊

Too many women here see their role as to be cared for and provided for by their husband, and that is true, but in return for His love and care, it is also Her role to love and care for Him. That is, if i scratch your back, then you scratch mine 😌. A man can not care for his wife And himself. A woman cannot only be a taker, she must also bring something to a marriage 😑.

"The task of a wife is to maintain and take care of a husband. It is not an easy undertaking. Those women, who are unaware of this feature of their role, may find difficulty in fulfilling the task. It is a job for the woman who is aware that the job requires a degree of sagacity, style, and ingenuity. For a woman to be a successful wife, she should win over her husband's heart and be a source of comfort to him.

She should encourage him to do good deeds while dissuading him from bad ones. She should also provide adequate measures to maintain his health and well-being. The results of her efforts are directed towards making the man into a kind and respected husband who would be a proper guardian for his family, and a good father from whom the children would seek guidance and respect. Allah, the All-Knowing has endowed woman with extraordinary power. The prosperity and happiness as well as the misery of the family are in her hands.

A woman can turn the home into a lofty paradise or a burning hell. She can lead her husband to the peak of success or the dregs of misfortune. The woman with the qualities bestowed on her by Allah, who is aware of her role as a spouse, can elevate her husband to a respected man even if he had been the lowest of all men."

https://al-islam.org/principles-marriage-family-ethics-ibrahim-amini/part-1-duties-women

Literally me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Someday, you’ll find something or someone that makes you realize why nothing before it worked out.