The 30s
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Navigating life in your 30s? Come connect and grow with others on the same path, from careers to relationships to identity 💬
The moment you start choosing yourself, everything begins to shift. For too long, many people live as a supporting character in their own life seeking approval, waiting to be validated, and putting others before their own growth. But the moment you decide to stand in your own worth, without needing permission, your energy changes. Your standards rise. Your boundaries become clear.
You stop chasing what was never aligned and start attracting what truly fits you. You no longer dim your light to make others comfortable you grow into who you’re meant to be. And as you do, the right people, opportunities, and paths begin to find you. Because life responds to how you see yourself. When you choose your own value, everything else begins to reflect it.
I haven't given up on finding my jodoh, but reality keeps humbling me. Even on Muzz, I don't get any matches. Haha
My brother told me to download apps to find partner. I'm not someone to try this things because I want face to face first impressions but here I'm. My introvert self kick me here.
June is almost here, which means the year is nearly half gone. My birthday is in January, insha’Allah, and I’ll be turning 30. I’m not afraid of my thirties.. if anything, I feel better than I ever have. What does sit with me, though, is the reality that some men are especially harsh toward women who are still single in their thirties. I’ve already had insecure men make comments about my “declining value” while claiming theirs only grows with age and income. It’s honestly laughable and I don’t take their words to heart, but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little intimidated by what this next decade holds, God willing I’m here to live it. Sometimes I wish I had been more proactive about finding a spouse sooner, but I wasn’t ready and our nikkah date is predestined so there’s honestly no reason to put pressure on myself.
Be in your 30s is amazing, 5 years older than you and 5 years younger than you.... Both flirting with you 🤣😂
Do not argue with your mother, even if you believe you are right.
And do not raise your voice above hers, no matter what happens.
Righteousness toward parents is not simply placing a kiss upon your mother’s head or your father’s hand and thinking you have fully fulfilled their rights.
Nor is it only beautiful words written in a post, or tears shed while listening to something about mothers.
"True dutifulness" is this:
To learn what brings happiness to their hearts, then hasten toward it.
And to avoid whatever hurts them, even if they never once asked you to.
That is the kind of obedience and kindness beloved to Allah.
You keep waiting for life to give you certainty 🌫️
But certainty is a luxury most successful people never had 🌊
They moved forward anyway 💪
Even when they were unsure 🌧️
And figured things out along the way 🔥
