The 30s
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Navigating life in your 30s? Come connect and grow with others on the same path, from careers to relationships to identity 💬
You guys aren't even divorced, have kids yet you're looking here for chat and talk? You know na secret talks in presence of a wife is haram. Only nikah is halal meaning talking to an unmarried girls father not directly talking to girls and telling false things about your wife while u make her pregnant every year.
Very shameless uncles.
Be a man, divorce her openly and then do second marriage.
Divorce is important because you don't plan to do justice to first wife then let her remarry too.
I often tell people that once you master the art of contentment, others may assume you have everything figured out. The truth is, contentment doesn’t mean you stop wanting more - it means you stop being controlled by the need for more.
Contentment doesn’t kill ambition; it removes desperation. It allows you to pursue your goals with peace, patience, and clarity rather than anxiety and pressure.
Alhamdulillah.
When I’m around married aunties, they always drop this line:
‘Don’t look for a boyfriend… look for a husband.’
Meanwhile me in my head: I’m trying, ma’am… but it’s not working yet 🤣
At this point, finding a husband feels like applying for a job. Sending applications, waiting, and still getting no response
Is it just me or do you feel the same?
The best thing about loving you
is that it never feels forced ❤️
I don't have to pretend,
I don't have to hide parts of myself 🫶
Because with you, being loved feels easy,
being understood feels natural,
and being happy feels effortless 🌷✨
Loving you feels like watching a sunset every day ❤️
No matter how many times I see it,
it still makes me stop and admire it 🤍
That’s what you are to my heart—
something familiar, comforting, and beautiful
that never loses its magic ✨
You keep focusing on what you haven’t achieved 📉
While ignoring how far you’ve already come 🌅
Growth isn’t always obvious 🌱
Sometimes it’s hidden inside your resilience 💪
Your mindset 🧠
And your ability to keep moving forward 🌊🔥