Psychology & Neurodiversity

The Quiet Art of Being Unforgettable 🤍

Have you ever wondered why certain people remain in our thoughts long after a brief encounter, while others, despite their efforts to impress, are so easily forgotten?

I have always found it fascinating that the most memorable people are not necessarily those who seek attention or possess extraordinary qualities.

Sometimes, it is something far more subtle. The elegance of their thoughts, the sincerity in their words, the way they listen, or the quiet confidence with which they carry themselves.

There is a particular charm in people who are comfortable being themselves, who have nothing to prove and no desire to compete for admiration.

Perhaps what makes someone truly remarkable is not their ability to impress us, but their ability to leave us with a feeling we cannot quite explain.

After all, attention can be captured in a moment, admiration may fade with time, but a genuine impression has a beautiful way of remaining.

I'm curious, have you ever encountered someone whose presence stayed with you long after the conversation ended? What made them so memorable?

— Katheeja Nizam 🤍

With time, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever. Sometimes, you simply grow into different lives.

twinkle, twinkle,
little star.
this year's been
a mental scar.

A woman shouldn't have to dim her success to make others feel comfortable with hers.

Do you know what I’ve noticed?

The difference between the young and the old people. Young people don’t ask why you aren’t married yet or they dont ask anything about your past what did not succeed; instead, they ask how your day was or whether you’ve had anything to eat—regardless of whether you’re a man or a woman. They're bold. Older people (30+), on the other hand, seem to expect that question to be asked to them, rather than asking it themselves. Or am I wrong about that? How low can a bar be?

Vad tycker ni om Myers-Briggs Type Indicator?

The Art of Being Curious

I've always found something rather fascinating about people who never lose their curiosity, regardless of their age, experiences, or how much they think they already know.

Those who can have a conversation about history over a cup of coffee, admire the architecture of an old building, appreciate the beauty of a different culture, or become completely absorbed in a subject they knew nothing about just yesterday.

There is something incredibly charming about a mind that refuses to stop exploring.

I believe the most interesting conversations are rarely the ones where everyone agrees. Sometimes, it's an unexpected opinion, a different perspective, or a simple question that makes us reconsider something we've always believed.

And perhaps that's what makes human connections so fascinating. We come from different backgrounds, carry different experiences, and see the same world through entirely different eyes. Yet, through a meaningful conversation, we can discover something beautiful in those differences.

For me, curiosity has never been merely about acquiring knowledge. It's also about remaining open-minded, listening without immediately judging, and understanding that no matter how much we learn, there will always be something we don't know.

A person who can speak with confidence is interesting. But someone who can listen with genuine curiosity, ask thoughtful questions, and admit they still have things to learn? That's a different kind of elegance altogether.

Because intelligence may impress us, but curiosity is what keeps a conversation alive.

And in a world where everyone seems eager to be heard, perhaps the rarest quality is still the willingness to truly listen.

— Katheeja Nizam🤍

Being a Single father is ready challenge and its full of tension and depression.
Is there anyone in this group going through same.

I still don’t understand those who still use tinder to find love

Men are conditioned to think household work, chores and emotional labour are women’s jobs, especially after they get married or enter a serious relationship.

No matter how good of a man you think he is, or how much he was doing things independently when he was single,

Men think it’s the woman’s job to take care of them in the household.