Converts / Reverts

Salaam, I would to hear your beautiful back stories. The moment you realized that you wanted to be a Muslim.

DUA FOR MONDAY
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمِنِ الرَّحِيم
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Ya Allah, bless us with a week full of barakah (blessings) and khair (goodness).
Help us to be more grateful and content with what we have.
Guide us to make righteous choices and strengthen our iman (faith).
Protect us from laziness and grant us success in our work and endeavors.
Ya Allah, make our hearts firm upon your deen (religion) and shield us from evil.
Grant us the ability to do good deeds and draw closer to You.
-AmeenYa’Rabil’Alameen

“Indeed, with hardship comes ease.”
فَإِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا

Allah doesn’t say that ease comes after hardship, He says it comes with it.

Sometimes we’re so focused on the pain, the uncertainty, or the struggle that we don’t recognize the ease already surrounding us: the strength to keep going, the people who support us, the lessons we’re learning, the doors Allah is quietly opening, or the mercy He gives us each day.

The hardship is real, but so is the ease. We just don’t always see it in the moment. This completely changed my perspective on things and hope it can also help others x

May Allah open our hearts to recognize His blessings even in our most difficult times. I am divorced with one son and i pray to almighty that he grant us patience and help us find a partner who is understanding and caring to spend whole life together.

Asalaam Alykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh, in search of a practicing gentleman who wants to settle down and enjoy marriage in a halal way, may Allah make it easy for all of us 🤲🏼🤲🏼

Looking back at the whole situation, it is completely normal to feel frustrated after putting in genuine effort, giving her a surprise, and then getting hit with vague excuses like "vibes not matching" after she initially pulled you in with heavy emotional talk. If her sudden shift was secretly driven by superficial things like your build or weight, that says a lot more about her poor communication and shallow mindset than it does about you, so you definitely should not let it shake your confidence or make you second-guess your worth 🥲

Are we treating revert based on their skin color?

I recently met with a Latino in Argentina

And before you comment

I would request read carefully

She came from Argentina and has 3 kids and recently converted to Islam.

Now we all know converts facing issues for marriage especially in western world because of low population.

But she is open to marry anyone.

And believe me I spoke to her

She has changed a lot after converting to Islam

Now she understands her boundaries

But she is struggling to find someone

She would be revert from USA many people

Would have died to marry her

The reality could be her passport

So if someone is looking for into I can help

She can take care her and expenses and her kids expenses.

She can't move here in Asia

She wants someone who can move there ...

Happy to share more info about her

Please help her.

Avery revert is especial for as Muslims

To any other concert sisters who are making their wardrobe work bc they cant spend 50$+ on abayas and more flowy modest clothing. Allah sees our struggles and intentions. Dont be too hard on yourself

Okay I have a genuine question as a convert who has began wearing hijab as it is a spiritual and physical protection from Allah SWT.

Are t shirts permissible in Quran?

My understanding is that our face, hands and feet can show, but that we are to be covered to our wrists. Yet I see people wearing t shirts with hijab and i had someone tell me i should just wear tshirts. And as a learning convert it is very confusing for me. No im not judging the girls that do it, because everyone is on their own path, but I thought we had to cover our arms?

I think i will just continue to wear longsleeves just because i feel more modest and connected to Allah SWT this way, but I am just curious if there is hadith or quranic text that permisses T-shirt’s.

Yes this is worded poorly but im tired and not fixing it <3

So.
What happens if the men supposed to steer the "halal marriage" ship take women for a joke?

In this case , I personally just want kids (and of course halal kids) not securing a marriage. I would still do well as a single parent , Inshallah. I'm open to being number 4 just that I cannot go ahead be single mum without nikah first.
Please advise on this.

It is hard, with the kind of men we're meeting here, and I personally don't come from a Muslim community where it's easier getting a spouse.

I keep getting matches in here, but nothing serious out of it. Who is the problem? Or what's the problem? How do we address this ?