Muslims in London

The dehumanization of babies and the humanization of pets is horrible....

What's your opinion on this? 😃😉

Assalam alaykum, what special about u , everyone is uniquely blessed and special, just like every baby until society corrupts him / her

Brothers will say anything on jamaa to get a girl to like their post 🤣

Three years on @muzz and not a single decent match! Is this app completely useless, or are you just after people's money?
I’ve paid for a subscription, expecting a proper service, but it feels like an absolute rip-off. It seems your main priority is taking our hard-earned cash rather than actually helping Muslims complete half their deen. Total waste of time and money!

Assalamu Alaikum.

I live in London and looking for a serious path to marriage, strictly halal. Age or past marriage status doesn't matter to me at all what matters is character, honesty, and being 100% genuine about settling down. No games, just looking for the real deal. Drop a message

Thanks! ♥️

To the men who only chase 'BEAUTIFUL':

You'll never be satisfied.
There's always someone prettier, younger, more glowing.

Beauty is a bonus. Maturity is a must.

In the long run, it's not looks that keep you together.
It's comfort, communication, and sincerity.

Looks attract. Character makes them stay.

Pilihannya cari yang cantik atau tulus...

Your choice 🤙🤙🤙

I’d genuinely like to hear people’s honest opinions about a difficult decision I made.

I had been separated from the mother of my children for six years before I travelled abroad and eventually remarried. My second wife was of Arab background, and at the beginning, we genuinely loved each other and had a good connection.

However, over time, I started noticing behaviours that I struggled to understand. I’m naturally a person who likes joking and keeping things light, but she would often take my words very seriously and sometimes turn the smallest comment into an argument, even when I had clearly been joking.

As a doctor, I started to suspect that she might be struggling with OCD or severe anxiety. She never told me this herself, so I didn't want to make assumptions or confront her about something I wasn't certain about. Later, I realised that she was taking medication, which confirmed my suspicions. Even then, I never brought it up or judged her for it.

Despite these difficulties, there was still love between us and many good moments. But gradually, I began to feel that I was walking on eggshells. Eventually, she didn't want me to visit her workplace and didn't even want her neighbours to know about me.

That was the point at which I started to feel that I couldn't have the sense of trust, openness and security that I believe a marriage needs.

I eventually decided to divorce her. It wasn't an easy decision, and I still ask myself whether I handled it correctly.

So I'd genuinely like to ask:

Was I wrong to end the marriage because I no longer felt emotionally secure and comfortable in the relationship? Or was leaving the right decision, even though there was still love between us?

I'd appreciate honest opinions, even if you disagree with me.

Madam, we are business people. We know everything—who is sold where, how, and for how much. 😏🔥

Why Are Couples Getting Divorced More Often in Modern Times? 💔

Marriage is meant to be a beautiful journey of love, companionship, trust, and togetherness. But in our modern time, many couples are finding it difficult to stay together. Relationships that once began with love and beautiful dreams sometimes end in separation.

Why is this happening?

1. Lack of Communication

One of the biggest reasons marriages struggle is poor communication. Couples stop sharing their feelings, concerns, and expectations. Instead of talking openly, they choose silence, arguments, or distance.

A marriage cannot grow when two people stop understanding each other.

2. Unrealistic Expectations

Social media has created an illusion of perfect relationships. People see happy couples, romantic surprises, expensive gifts, and beautiful lifestyles—and start comparing their own marriages.

But every marriage has difficult days. Real love is not about having a perfect partner; it is about learning to love and understand each other through imperfections.

3. Lack of Respect

Love alone is not enough if respect is missing.

When couples insult each other, ignore feelings, or make their partner feel unimportant, emotional distance begins to grow. A relationship needs kindness, patience, and respect, especially during disagreements.

4. Financial Pressure

Modern life comes with many responsibilities. Rising expenses, career stress, and financial disagreements can create tension between husband and wife.

Money problems may not always destroy a marriage, but refusing to work together as a team can make things much harder.

5. Busy Lifestyles and Lack of Quality Time

Many couples are busy with jobs, responsibilities, phones, and social media. They live in the same house but sometimes feel emotionally far apart.

A marriage needs time, attention, and small moments of connection. Sometimes, a simple conversation, a cup of tea together, or asking “How was your day?” can mean more than expensive gifts.

6. Ego and the Refusal to Compromise

Some couples want to win every argument instead of protecting their relationship.

Marriage is not a competition between husband and wife. It is a partnership. Both people need to learn when to speak, when to listen, and when to say, “I’m sorry.”

Compromise should never mean accepting abuse or losing your self-respect. It means making healthy adjustments for the sake of a shared life.

7. Infidelity and Broken Trust

Trust is one of the foundations of marriage. When dishonesty, betrayal, or infidelity enters a relationship, rebuilding that trust can become extremely difficult.

A strong marriage requires honesty, loyalty, and clear boundaries with other people.

8. Family Interference

Sometimes, couples struggle because too many outside opinions enter their marriage.

Family support is valuable, but a husband and wife also need privacy and the freedom to make healthy decisions together. A marriage becomes stronger when both partners protect their relationship while maintaining respect for their families.

9 Giving Up Too Quickly

Not every disagreement means a marriage is failing.

Some couples give up without trying to understand the real problem, seek guidance, or work on their relationship. Marriage requires effort from both sides.

However, staying together is not always the right answer. Abuse, violence, serious betrayal, and ongoing harm should never be ignored or excused in the name of saving a marriage.

What Can Couples Do to Save Their Marriage? ❤️

Talk openly, even when the conversation is difficult.

Respect each other’s feelings and opinions.

Make time for one another, even during busy days.

Keep romance alive through small gestures.

Learn to apologize and forgive when appropriate.

Discuss finances and responsibilities as a team.

Protect your marriage from unnecessary outside interference.

Seek professional or trusted guidance when problems become difficult to manage.

A Final Thought

Marriage is not just about finding someone beautiful, successful, or financially stable. It is about finding someone who is willing to build a life with you.

There will be happy days, stressful days, laughter, disagreements, and moments when both partners need extra patience.

A successful marriage does not mean two perfect people. It means two imperfect people who choose to understand, respect, support, and grow together.

In our modern time, we should not only ask, “What can my partner do for me?”

We should also ask:

“What can I do to make my partner feel loved, respected, and safe in this marriage?”

Because love may bring two people together, but kindness, loyalty, communication, and responsibility help keep them together. 🌿