Divorced Muslims

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

How is every divorced individual finding MUZZ?

What do you think? Is a single man more likely to have ego, pride, enmity and jealousy than a single father? Is a single man far less merciful than a single father?

My best friend suggested single parent App because I'm meeting proud and egoistic individuals.

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Assalamualaikum everyone

Try to keep an open mind about my post here. Everybody has different situations and requirements, so don't put some unborn pressure on anyone reading this nor any hateful comments as they're not warranted. I was going to post this in Mental Health, but it's more apt here.

As divorcees get older and life provides us to split our times evenly with children, family, work and our newly found hobbies that help us stay sane in this world (alongside our Deen, first and foremost) how have many people here started rethinking about the type of situation they want to put themselves in to save from the pressures of conventional marriage?

I have deactivated my marriage profile as it seems my situation is unique in some ways, but I'm convinced my mentality and foresight on what I'm after isn't. Most of us simply cannot change the situations we are in, yet still want to avoid munkar and keep our lives halal.

Those of us who are older have already carved a life for ourselves where we can't really change it (be it children, work, location etc), we just want an addition of affection and intimacy. I already have priorities with care to my elders, new business and time being taken up with building a life from scratch. Others may be in exactly the same boat with their lives and unable to change it. So the thought of having a partner is still there but the situation of change won't allow that to happen as easy or anytime soon.

Personally, I wouldn't expect anyone to change their life for me if they had those responsibilities as I understand the complications of it. It would be simply unfair and unjust on the woman that has her own initial home to run from a life she had previous to us meeting.

How do those of us who are older and divorced feel about having an arrangement where you can still have a partner to message and share life with in a halal manner alongside a foundation that's already been set from a previous 'life'?

Getting rejected is one of the hardest feelings to sit with — especially when you actually liked this person.

But before you spiral into ""what's wrong with me""... let's talk about what's really going on.

Sometimes rejection has nothing to do with you.

It could be their insecurity making them question if someone this good could actually be real. It could be fear — of losing stability, of taking a risk, of starting over. Or it could be unhealed trauma from past relationships that they're still carrying.

And here's the truth no one tells you, that is not your work to fix.

You can't force someone to love you or to trust you. They have to choose it themselves.

So the next time rejection stings, remember — their journey is theirs. Yours is still wide open.

Save this for the next time you need a reminder.

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🚨 Girls , a word of caution

I recently came across a post where a man shared a heartbreaking story, describing his ex-wife as a drug abuser, mentally ill, and unfaithful.

Whenever you hear only one side of a relationship, remember there is always another side that may never be told. Be cautious of anyone who publicly tears down a former partner to gain sympathy or attention. To me, that’s a major red flag.

Relationships can end for many reasons, but publicly humiliating an ex and using deeply personal accusations to build a victim narrative raises serious concerns about a person’s character.

Protect your peace. Ask questions. Look for accountability, not just blame. There are plenty of decent people out there. Don’t ignore red flags or settle for someone who seeks sympathy while publicly attacking another person’s reputation.

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