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Hello everyone I'm not a Muslim but I like to dress like that😍😊

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If you have to pretend to be someone you're not to please him or her, you were never meant to be his or hers in the first place...

If you’re looking to get married for the first time, pls pls lookout for sighs of narcissistic behavior. You will never be enough for a narcissist.
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Don't be afraid of the beginning, all great people started with a step.

Hello 👋

I connected with this girl on Muzz, we hit it off really good on the app. We shared a lot about each other and understood baseline requirements. It is extremely important to her that communication be solid, so I put in the effort needed. We went on about things very well.

She started sharing a lot more about her family, her past life, what she wants to do in the future and all that great stuff as to what we like, how we are, what ticks us off and what makes it right. Lots of pictures shared.

Our shared values matched, family orientation matched too. It almost felt like I know this person for a long time, it was smooth.

She lives about two hours away and we eventually planned to meet after 2 weeks of talking and texting. She doesn’t drive, so it’s time for me to show the effort I can put in. We made plans for dinner.

Made the drive, excited to meet my potential partner. We had great time, had dinner, walked around for many hours late into the night, very late. So late that I couldn’t drive back another two hours, we hung out until fajr. So I booked some lodging and stayed the night.

As you can see there was a lot of mutual trust.

So far all things going wonderfully and because I was sticking around, we made plans for next day. We had nice breakfast together, drove around the town and walked some more… enough that me little legs are hurting by the end of it - but it was worth it.

We shared our things in depth, telling stories and so many wonderful things. Her parents live in my city, things went from one to another and we ended up deciding that she’ll ride back with me and stay with her parents for a couple of days. I’m good with her child, she seemingly good with mine. All good!!

By this time I’m all butterflies in my stomach, so much trust, so much shared and we enjoyed our drive back making a couple of stops along the way, lots of music of her choice, bought her chocolates on the way back and you know, the usual stuff.

There was tremendous trust. I dropped her off at her parent’s place and since then things took a left turn.

I’ve been messaging, one or two delayed replies came back as cold like “I’m here, not talking, I’m busy, family time” etc.

I stepped it up, suggested that we meet again since her parents were just 10 minutes drive away from me, it was responded with stiffness. I couldn’t get even a coffee meet, or even a stop by and say salaam meet. What the heck?

Then complete silence, even messages are read, but no response.

I would’ve moved mountains for her, but now I can’t even move some messages.

It’s been one week, I haven’t received a single response - and I have stopped messaging for the last 4-5 days because it doesn’t feel right to keep messaging someone.

I don’t usually get hung up on things but we had something and I don’t even know if she’s still in my city or gone back, or what else.

This feels bad because our connection was really good. Considering that it was very important for her to keep communication open and frequent, what do I make of this?

What did I do wrong?