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Why do some people have such high expectations before marriage? They may want a husband who has his
- own car
- own house
- no siblings
- a separate home
- good-looking
- well-educated
- earns PKR 300,000+ per month minimum 8) takes them shopping every week
- travels every three months
- always prioritizes his wife over his family
Some people become a beautiful chapter in your life, even if they don’t stay forever.
I gave my heart, my time, and my sincere intentions. It hurts that not every story gets the ending we dream of, but love also means accepting what we cannot change.
I’m broken, but I won’t let this pain make me bitter. I’ll heal, grow, and keep believing that what’s meant for me will find me one day.
Until then… I’ll carry the memories with gratitude and keep moving forward. 🥀❤️ Thank you Ta....N for giving me this pain from Muzz..
I place a bit of significance in presenting as a strong independent woman. There’s a ton of judgement that comes with that.
But the truth is, and I obviously cannot say this up front, as the daughter of religious - very strict, though well-meaning immigrant parents - I am afraid of ever living in an environment where I feel controlled and where I can’t disagree and/or feel like I’m walking on egg shells if I do. It’s exhausting. I refuse to live that life and I refuse it for my future children InshaAllah.
I know I’m not the only woman who feels this way. A lot of us -women - have been in situations where we felt limited and don’t want to spend the rest of our lives feeling that way. Boys generally aren’t treated with the same level of control so I guess they don’t really get it, but I wish guys understood.
Everyone on Muzz seems like an angel at first, always trying to look perfect. But once you get to know them, you realize those wings were just a filter, and reality tells a completely different story. First impressions aren't always the truth.
What is the red flag and the green flag for you guys ?
