All things marriage

Imagine you're married.
Your wife works and earns slightly more than you, while you also have a good income.

As the eldest son, your parents still expect you to support them financially, and sometimes your married siblings ask for help too. Meanwhile, your wife has no parents or siblings to support. She has never complained about contributing to household expenses and continues helping with the bills.

My questions:
• Would you still give your wife a personal allowance?
• If you wanted to give extra money to your parents from your own salary, would you discuss it with your wife first, or would you quietly do it since it's your own income?

No judgment, I'm just interested to hear different perspectives.

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Assalamaulaikum warahmathullahi wabarakatuhu everyone reading.

Just wanted to share something. I met this amazing women here on muzz, everything was fine between us alhamdulillah just that we come diff countries and logistics were the issue, we tried everything that we can, even i spoke to her parents. But after long good amount of months like close to a year. We decided to mutually call it off.

Not because i wanted to but i had too, because here parents wanted her to get married soon, her father health was not best on and off hospital.

Last night i had dream about her, she wasn't exactly in the dream but it was about her.

Now since this morning i am thinking about her, she was the best match that i was blessed with.

Alhamdulillah i got to meet her here, i have no regret. Everything that we did was under shariah we both are practicing to our best. We kept interactions halal never spoke anything outside of marriage it was all about to check compatibility.

It been over year now but i am not over her, it's just she had set the standards too high.

Tho on the surface level things look logistics and other stuff, but nothing can happen if Allah never wanted it to happen. Alhamdulillah.

So my question to you all here is, anyone of you experienced this? If yes, how did you managed it.

JazakAllahu khairan

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When you’re searching for a potential spouse, actually not even searching.

Who do you think is more righteous:

A Muslim who doesn’t follow Qur’an and Sunnah

Or

A non-Muslim who happens to have the characteristics, actions, and morals of someone who follows Qur’an and Sunnah?

💭Hypothetical scenario for the ladies...

Imagine you're talking to a potential match, and an argument happens. He's clearly upset, and after giving it some thought, you realize you were at fault.

Would you:
A) Swallow your pride, text him first, and apologize.
B) Wait to see if he reaches out.
C) Let it end there because you believe the right person wouldn't let one disagreement ruin things.

And one more question: Is making the first move after a mistake a sign of emotional maturity, or do people often mistake it for desperation?

Curious to know where everyone stands. 👀