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I prefer a man to approach me first but do you think women actually need to make the first move to find love these days?
The funniest part is every comment section is filled with men only...men are so humble you know.
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After looking at the demands/expectations from a few of the women here on Jamaa/Muzz..
I sincerely want to ask for an honest opinion from everyone…
I’m at a stage where, yes I can take care of my future partner and cater to all her needs and my needs(it’ll be hand to mouth/we won’t have any savings tho).. but I am also at a stage where I have massive room for growth!
Now with growth comes risk, comes sacrifices, comes uncertainties.
As a muslim, yes , it is obligatory for me to get married and getting married young is advised!(I’ve almost crossed that age)
But with the situation now and the demand now.. Can someone help guide me to the right choice from the below options ->
A. Find a partner and get married after being settled (I’m 27 currently, it may take 5 years or more)
B. Marry a housewife and limit your expenses and work hard(make it till you break it kinda situation)
C. Marry a working woman(who is supportive to your goals and ambitions) Stay together, Earn together, Plan together, Grow together and Most Importantly - Live together through all the ups and downs, whatever may come…
Note - I always wanted/preferred a non-working wife.. because I wanted to give her the queen treatment that she deserves.. I don’t want her to stress about the finances or how will we pay the bills or something for the next month.
I’m also someone who wants to practice deen to the best of his capabilities , I want my wife to cover-up as she feels comfortable.. but stay modest and avoid the eyes of indecent men. So obviously her working in a corporate environment would definitely be a challenge to covering up and prayers and stuff…
So i’m in a dilemma.. How should someone navigate all this.. Is this also too much.. are these unrealistic expectations too?
What's one thing that always makes you laugh? 😂
إيه الحاجة اللي دايمًا بتضحكك؟
Hello. I am not that long in this group but I feel and made experience that there is a lot of fake people and people who is bored at home and wasting others time.
Please give me an advice if I shall leave the group. I can't trust anyone anymore. It makes me sad. And it's unbelievable also that we have it in this "Muslim" App
True story (I experienced now)
Be careful of those predators who come into your DM the way shaytan does, asking a innocent question, like are the taxis in Mecca 🕋 safe???
The he tried to superempose his shia beliefs upon me. After I ask him to send his proof that shiaism is the way chosen by Allah
He just keep talking irrelevantly.
Anyways shaytan doesn’t say disbelieve in Allah.
Follow another path.
He comes asking about taxis in Mecca 🕋
😂 😂 😂
I’m serious tho, watch out for some of these “Muslim men”
