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Rameesa Saad | Feminine Coach for Muslim Wives on Instagram‎: "1. Keep your fights INSIDE the house. Don’t vent to your mom, your sister, or your group chat. Once you invite outsiders into your problems, you destroy the privacy Allah commanded you to protect. Fix it between you and Allah first. 2. If they feel alone with you, it’s already broken. You can be sitting on the same couch and still be miles apart. Loneliness in marriage is worse than being single. Presence > Proximity. 3. Lack of effort feels like lack of love. You don’t have to buy expensive gifts. But if you stop trying—stop asking, stop listening, stop dating—you’re telling them they’re not worth the energy. 4. You’re not always right—act like it. The Prophet ﷺ was the best of creation, yet he listened to his wives. Drop the ego. admitting you’re wrong isn’t weakness; it’s leadership. 5. Fix your tone—it kills more than your words. It’s not what you said; it’s how you said it. A harsh tone can shatter a heart faster than a harsh truth. Speak gently. 6. If you’re bored, you’re not trying. Marriage isn’t a movie that entertains you. It’s a garden. If it’s boring, it’s because you stopped watering it. 7. Closeness dies when conversations do. When you stop sharing your day, your fears, and your dreams, you become roommates. Talk about more than just bills and kids. 8. You can win the fight or save the relationship—choose one. You can’t have both. Winning an argument by destroying your spouse’s dignity is a loss for the entire family. 9. Silent treatments destroy trust faster than yelling. Silence isn’t “peace.” It’s abandonment. It tells your partner, “I’m punishing you by withdrawing my love.” Stop it. Communicate. 10. Intimacy means nothing without connection. If you’re disconnected emotionally, physical intimacy feels like a transaction. Connect with their heart before you reach for their body. 11. Marriage isn’t 50/50. It’s 100/100. If you’re waiting for them to do their half, you’ll be waiting forever. Give 100% for the sake of Allah, and watch the barakah flow. 👉 If you’re tired of just surviving your marriage… and you want to feel close, secure, and deeply connected again Comment “LIFE” and ill send you my pdf link"‎