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100 of profiles checking my details and still been unmatched, make me feel high standards or am i not that good looking?

Iam looking for a relationship that will be a friend's first and know everything about is and then take a final decision.

Guys and ladies. What are your requirements in the spouse before you marry them? Only list ones you cant compromise on. Thanks in advance.

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Good evening house

Good evening my fellow Muslim

I grew up in the UK, my degree in history and politics and my master's in education didn't save me from the path of an Uber driver.

Few years in and an old friend of mine pops out of nowhere, helped me land a job abroad for a subcontractor, in the oil and gas industry. An entirely new world in a different country, without even the background needed. Things finally looked like they were going the way I had always hoped but couldn't realistically expect, given my background.

I started doing the things I never dreamed of doing, helping the family out often, staying in nice hotels every now and again, and of course, meeting women I never thought possible during my Uber days. Suddenly I was banging doctors and engineers but that's a side story. .

During this period I had took a liking to a waitress in the coffeeshop I would always go to. Something about this girl pulled me and I didn't know what it was; was it the exceptionally unforgiving background she came from? Was it because I felt responsible for her? But why would I, when she's just like any other girl I met while being abroad? I really don't know.

I started seeing this girl. We broke up more times than I can count but we would always find a way to get back together. The age gap didn't help- I'm a lot older- and it was during one of those break ups when I received the news of my termination from the company, through no fault of my own but they did an audit and got rid of all the non engineers and my name was on that spreadsheet.

I couldnt return back without telling her, so I did. That's when our relationship, somehow, got stronger; both of us knew I was leaving.

But going from being able to afford many things (not like I was rich, but I could at least spend £10 a day just on coffee and not feel it), I went from that, to worrying about money again.

No source of income so I could no longer support the key people back home I was trying to support through employment, no prospects back in the UK, no engineering degree, barely saved 20k plus the 10k I had previously saved, nothing under my name besides the car I left behind, which was already recorded damaged and fixed (cat s); the only thing I felt I had was this girl. She just wouldn't let go of me.

She said I took you not because of your job.

That was the one sentence I never saw in any girl I had ever crossed paths with. But the problem didn't go away. Now I have a woman and no job. I can't even bring her to the UK because they made it a lot more difficult- if you know you know.

My final return ticket was booked for the 29th of this month. Then, out of the blue, something happened.

A series of events took place, a managerial job I had absolutely no right to apply for, because I have never managed anyone in my life can barely manage myself, came up. Through so much support from people I had never helped nor even knew, and 3 terrible interviews later, I landed it.

The pay is about the same as before, and I'll work an extra day so it's a 6 day a week job, at a subcontractor in the same sector. If I am being pessimistic, I'll have another 3 months pay at the very least. Having already layed out my plans prior to this, I enrolled at a project management course as the first of 3 courses so that I can at least come back to the UK with an employable certificate.

I have yet to tell this girl what happened as I want to surprise her face to face and I am still waiting for my visa approval- which could prove problematic for people born in certain countries over here.

But, I didn't and could never have been able to understand her, had I met her online. As a member of 6 years in this app, I realise that most women here just need someone with a good job, but what happens if you lose this job?

This girl proved the only woman who was willing to accept the situation; she came good when i had lost all hope, she stuck with me.

For this, I think I will marry her insha'Allah.

I'm looking for a kind and sincere woman to share meaningful conversations, care, and mutual respect. I'd love to build a beautiful relationship based on honesty, trust, and affection. If you believe the best relationships begin with a genuine conversation, I'd be happy to get to know you. 🤍🌹