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What choosing someone as a life partner means to you? As for me choosing someone as a life partner means having to know the good and bad side of a person and till chooses them anyhow, people strength/ good side are the easiest things to love, everyone can choose you base on that, but knowing the weakness /bad side of a person and still you want to choose them is what makes you believe that you finally find your life partner, there are certain things that you can't change in a person you have to tolerate them anyhow and there are some that can be change, so as for me knowing the good and bad side of a person, and being able to know that I can tolerate them forever it's what will make me believe that I find my life partner 😍❤️
If religion is making you more judgmental and harsh toward people, then something is not right.
It’s funny if u read girls bio they will say. Want someone close to Islam and get her to jannah. 😂
But those are mostly satan in saint disguise 🥸 😂
Hats off
Manifesting a girl to play chess with me 🥺
@jhkrbts321332 With respect, I think you are confusing maturity with enabling.
You told me she is 'allowed' to vent about me publicly because she didn't use my name. But Islamically, that is Ghibah (backbiting) and Namimah (tale-carrying). The Prophet (PBUH) said that backbiting is worse than adultery. If she has an issue with me, Islam commands her to come to me privately. The fact that she didn't use my name doesn't make it halal; it actually makes it more cowardly, because she gets to harm my reputation while hiding behind plausible deniability.
You told me to 'shut up and carry on'' to be mature. But the Prophet (PBUH) never told us to stay silent about oppression or slander. In fact, Allah commands us in Surah Al-Hujurat to verify news and to correct our brothers and sisters. Silence in the face of injustice is not maturity; it is complicity.
Lastly, you are defending her right to vent on socials, but criticizing me for posting a conversation to defend myself. Why is her public venting 'allowed' but my public defense is 'immature'? That is a double standard.
I am not hurt; I am holding her accountable. And I will not let anyone - man or woman - twist Islamic values to justify gossiping about me. If you want to talk about maturity, maturity is advising your sister to fear Allah and come to me directly, rather than advising me to accept mistreatment quietly.
Keep watching Netflix and Chilling while your biological clock ticks on by.
So guys i matched with someone and it had been 10 months since we first started talking and i love him alot
The problem is i live in war area, and itsnot 100% safe for him to visit and meet my parents in order to we get married, so he suggested that we meet in a third country
I have no money because of war issues in my country, and i need alot if time to collect money so me and my parents can meet him and his parents in a third country, my question for guys how long would you wait for the girl you want to marry so she can work, collect some money to meet you?
