I may get hate for this but I don’t care.. why get married and take a women out of her comfort just to manipulate, marry, have children, then never fulfill her rights the way islamically it’s written for a man to do … I’m so overwhelmed 3 years dealing with a Muslim African man who thinks of only himself and back in his country … why come to America and start a family here that you can’t even maintain … I’m going through it you all .. as a convert of 4 years .. I will never allow this for myself ever again. Always know your worth and if someone really loves you they wouldn’t do anything to hurt you. I was left without a proper working car , and now being kicked out having to find a place of my own with my daughter while he gets the best life is so sad..
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I’m sorry you and your daughter are going through such a difficult time. No woman should be left feeling abandoned or unsupported after sacrificing so much for her family.
Islam gives rights and responsibilities to both spouses, and when those responsibilities are neglected, real pain and hardship follow. At the same time, I hope people remember that one person's actions do not represent all Muslim men.
May Allah make things easy for you, grant you strength, and open better doors for you and your daughter in the future.
@salihahaha honestly I wish him the best . I wish myself the very best as well & inshallah I can heal from this heartbreak the correct way . I’m grieving who I once was before I left my comfort own home to come here just to be kicked out even while pregnant ..
I can empathize, Sis. I have gotten married three times, and it always ends with me tolerating abuse until they get bored and cheat/run off. Then they take advantage of a new supply while I'm left having to explain why I'm divorced. They always approach with effort, consistency, ability, and compatibility. But once they hook you into marriage, they don't try anymore. Allah knows best, they don't fear Allah! I get down a lot, feeling sad about how a Muslim can selfishly ruin so many lives. We're all going through different trials in this world, and this is ours. Al hamdulillah, if we are alive another day as a believer, healthy, and with provision, we can focus on that. We can make adhkaar, pray on time, give da'wah, and recite Quran. Inshallah a good husband will come, but rushing to find him won't speed up the process. (Yes, this is advice to me first and foremost.) May Allah reward you for your patience and help you and keep you firm upon the straight path. ❤️ Maryam