Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
Have you ever been with an insecure guy?
The kind who says things like, “Please don’t lose weight,” or “I like that you look like an aunty.”
As if keeping you from looking your best somehow makes them feel more secure.
They wanted you to stay the same. Once you changed, they walked away.
If someone is ignoring you, use their own mind against them🧠
Are you being ghosted?
Stop chasing.
Stop begging.
Try this psychological trick instead. 🛑
✔When someone goes silent, send them this exact message:
"I just remembered something interesting about us"
Then, walk away.
Leave them on read for at least five hours.
Do not explain.
Do not double-text.
Just go silent.
✔Curiosity is a psychological weapon. Their brain won't stop wondering what you meant.
Their mind will start racing.
They will text you back. They might even call.
✔But here is the real secret:
Do not reply yet.
Let that curiosity grow. Let them think about you even harder.
✔After five hours, send this:
"Sorry, got a bit busy. Almost forgot what I wanted to say"
Just like that the power dynamic flips.
They were ignoring you before.
Now they’re chasing your attention.
You didn't chase.
You used psychology to make them chase you.
There’s a strange kind of emptiness that can appear after you’ve done a lot of inner work. You start feeling lighter, clearer, and more at peace, but sometimes you also feel a quiet sense of loss. Not because you want to go back, but because the version of you that was constantly surviving, overthinking, or performing had become familiar. Healing can feel like losing a part of your old identity, even when the new one is healthier.
Do you believe in love in this era?
Have you ever experienced the out-of-body thing??
𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙙𝙞𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩.
The audacity of some people!!!
People who post things like:
"Being offended cause an unattractive person liked them"
1-lacks basic brain cells: you being liked on a marriage app by people, is the whole point of the app, not something to be disgusted by!
2-if you read point 1 and said "no she/he didnt get disgusted by people liking her/him she/he got disgusted because ugly people liked her/him", well congratulations what she/he did worked on you, she/he "dehumanized" people base on a trait and you strated seeing them as less value.
3-shes/hes clearly signaling: non Islamic behavior, narcissistic tendencies, psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies.
4-she/he probably unsecure of her/his looks/value, so he is seeking validation from "high" value people.