Mental health

Make peace with what hurts you. You will go through A LOT before you get there. Take your time, feel what is needed to be felt and do it for YOU. Distractions and running away from it will only make those feelings come back. Face it, feel it and get over it. It does not matter anymore if the other person moved on or what he/she feels. They made a choice to hurt you without considering your feelings. They know what they are doing. Shift your focus on yourself and be better everytime. 🕊

As Muslims let's embrace the knowledge about our mental health. It's as important and more important than physical health itself.
We have all witnessed someone that looks great physically but the next day they commit sucide so built the mental muscle too

so cruel yet so fascinating how you'll have to literally rewire your brain after a certain event while the other person goes on to live their life completely unaffected

i feel suicidal i won’t do it because my iman is strong since i know no matter what happens i won’t be a disbeliever and i know life is a teat but its just too much for me to handle now . now a lot i had a very hard past i was born in india , for 16 years my whole childhood i was bullied and hit , many times other students fake complains just to get me punished and even i still tried to make them friend and they took advantage of me to get me into trouble in school , tuitions , bcz of my skin colour and religion. i had literally 0 friends until i was 16 i cried in school toilets, terrace I prayed to Allah 

My Father always had many many struggles becthe was good person many took advantage of him yet h helped as many as he could and One day my father came to hong kong because my dad got job here he came here as chef first for some years he came we couldn’t come for corona then me and mom we came too and we settled here , i got pakistani friends , i was earning . i was genuinely happy and felt like finally my hardship end i got ease but then one day my dad started having daily fevers , after treatment we found it was cancer , within 4 months he died when he only had 5 months left to get the pr in September 11 2024 and everything changed , even our staying legal terms . we didn’t had sponsor and nothing is left in india now because we sold everything to come and settle here. i have no complaint because god knows what i dont . i am trying to find a way to legally stay here because in india we have nothing left because we spend everything to settle here and our family isnt that supportive , barely we can rent and stay and also in india now even the residents they are telling then you are not resident even who are there for decades soo thats another problem. Also my studies is not that good i did food delivery jobs and it was my plan then uber maybe all along but things are really bad 

Also Wallahi i have plan to set up a dawah table give free Quran and convey the message of Islam , i talked to some pakistani friends about it too , one agreed to do it with me too . but things are not looking good for me to stay here .

im lonely soo i am trying to find way a way maybe to do anything to stay here and not go back india get married and start a family or anything , i have part time jobs experience soo i can earn and provide for family i try my best to be kind and patient and listen sincerely i never talk to girls casually unless its necessary and i keep my eyes down i do not look at girls out of respect and religious teachings. i believe this life is temporary soo whatever i do i try to do it for my akhirah. as my religion book says 'men are caretakers of women ' soo men is obligated to provide, take care of women and our prophet s.a.w said best of mens are who are best to their wives soo i will try my best to be the best husband . but this feels very weird too to even talk about to anyoen as they will make fun of me 😭 im the only kid of my dad he loved me a lot and i am fat because he cooked for me always i am fixing my body i lost 13 kgs and losing more , im literally crying and i dont know what to do , i pray Tahajjut daily nothing changes 

And now my moms health got bad , serious kind of , we went hospital one time we are non eligible now . the fees they told us is literally $16,000 hkd thats $2000 usd around and if we go back india idk what will hapen too , im not asking for help please dont get me wrong . we talked to social worked and seeing what to do , i work illegally in delivery jobd of other accounts for me and mom we both working illegally . we used to work legally but now our of necessity we have to.  brother im just depressed and desperate for Allahs response 

im really immature i just cant understand what to do , i have no one to ask , only my uncle but idk what to do brother out of desperation and i watch your video's entire time while
working soo i just felt i should ask here , even if humans have no solution idk im just crying idk what to do 😭 if anyone in the Ummah can hep me as a muslim brother in Ummah in any way . i will be really relaly grateful but right now i am in the worst state . all tension + now moms health i see her cry my heart breaks and i have no power to do anything .

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Dear cuties..
You're the daughter of a respected man and a future wife of another, don't let young boys fool you into their temporary lust, know your worth may Allah Always blessed you❤️💐