Muslims in America

Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi hey what's up I'm new just checking in

Alhamdulillahi for everything about me I give thanks to almighty Allah,
Am here for real if you are here for good DM.
May Almighty Allah give us the best of our partner

Hi, let's get to know each other and maybe we can get married soon?

Salaam,

I’m a female looking for an American Muslim man (born or naturalized or green card holder) that resides in the US
Alhamdulillah I make close to 3 figures so I’m not looking for an “atm machine”
I’m 38 looking for someone around my age (I don’t mind if he’s a little younger)
I like to spoil the people I love and back
Im not materialistic and I don’t wear makeup
Alhamdulliah I have around a 790ish credit score
Alhamdulliah I have a stable job and Masters degree
Alhamdulliah I pray 5 times a day and fast
I’m looking for a good Muslim man that prays or is willing to have us grow together closer to Allah SWT
No smoking or drinking
I’ve never been married (that is because Allah SWT is the BEST of planners and it has not been decreed for me yet but in shaa Allah it will be soon)
I’m full of positivity, love smiling, playing around, joking, and always willing to help. I’m looking for someone similar
Would consider a prenup/something written in our marriage contract that would protect both of us
Would rather save money from having a lavish wedding and spend it on a down payment on a house and honeymoon
Prophet Mohammed said the best of mahrs is the simplest, so I would like something simple
Overall, looking for a man who will love me for me and be the rock that I can lean on and my best friend and I can be the same for him.

If this sounds like we could be a match, leave a comment or drop your marriage profile and I’ll respond/look in shaa Allah 😊

Let’s face it, girls are generally just looking for a sugar daddy. On the other hand guys are just looking for ***.

This Du’a is for all my sisters out there

O my Most Merciful Lord, the Provider for all creation! I pray before You for all the girls and women who are compelled to work due to difficult circumstances, family burdens, or pressing responsibilities. O Allah, please ease their hardships, bless their efforts, and grant them abundant, lawful sustenance. O my Lord, wherever these women work, protect honor and dignity, safeguard their paths from every kind of trial and harm, and grant them such excellent means of livelihood that they never to look to anyone but You. Reward their courage and patience with the best of rewards, and fill their hearts with Your peace and contentment.
Ameen Ya’Rabil’Alameen 🤲🏻🙏🏻🤲🏻

The facts are that state marriage in the U.S. is a fully distinct legal contract that defines rights, obligations, and processes (like divorce, custody, and inheritance)in ways that CONTRADICT and NULLIFY Islamic frameworks.

Economically, it redistributes assets; politically, it grants the state sole authority over dissolution; legally, it nullifies or erodes the Islamic contract’s core terms (talaq, polygamy). These are structural realities (not abstract feelings) and they mean we as Muslims must choose between a civil framework that negates essential Islamic conditions or staying fully within nikāḥ. There’s no avoiding that reality.

Any ladies who go rock climbing? Went climbing in Greece for the first time outdoors and want to come back. Would love to have a partner to climb with on my next trip, but feeling like its a tall ask.

From my experience:🔬

The foundational business model of most major dating apps relies on the "attention economy," meaning their profitability heavily depends on keeping users swiping rather than helping them find permanent matches and leave the platform.
This dynamic is reinforced by several factors:
Monetization of Desirability: Apps often lock the most active or attractive profiles behind premium paywalls (Gold membership), gamifying the experience to encourage continuous microtransactions.
The "Paradox of Choice": By presenting an endless stream of potential matches, apps create the illusion that a "better" option is always just one swipe away, which discourages users from committing to early connections.
Algorithmic Pacing: Many platforms intentionally slow down match rates or throttle visibility to sustain engagement, pushing users to purchase boosts or tokens.

Please share your experience and thoughts.