Muslims in Netherlands

Salam,
As Muslim who living in Europe, would you mind to share your thoughts about a guy who thinks 50:50 in marriage when at first stage of marriage he can only afford of 2 and still support his family? And in the beginning before marriage state that his wife needs to work to support life and future for kids as well as if wife works can get benefit from gov?
Tbh it feels like an obligation for me after being a wife, I need to work to run our new family. It's not that I'm not willing to support husband in difficult times, but it seems like obligatory for his wife since he share his wishes from wife before marriage?
Feel free for everyone to reaponse regarding this. Could be a brainstorm for me as well.. I'm seriously looking for marriage, but since I heard this, it's like somehow I feel heavy on my minds hahaha
Many thanks!

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