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One thing I've noticed in the marriage process is that when a divorced woman has a child, she naturally hopes that her future husband will accept her child, take responsibility, and treat the child with love and care. And honestly, that is understandable.
However, when a man with children says that he is willing to accept her child and bear all the responsibilities, but in return he hopes that she will also accept his children and treat them like a mother, many women suddenly become hesitant.
Even if the woman agrees initially, sometimes family members start influencing her mind with different concerns and objections. I have personally experienced this situation twice.
The reality is that many divorced women with children still hope to find a man who has no children of his own, or even a never-married man. While everyone has the right to preferences, there comes a stage in life where compromise is necessary from both sides.
If you expect a man to accept your child, support them financially, and treat them as his own, then fairness demands that you should also be willing to make similar compromises and accept his children with an open heart.
Marriage after divorce is not only about finding someone who accepts your circumstances; it is also about being willing to accept theirs. Mutual understanding, fairness, and compromise are what make such relationships successful.
Has anyone gotten married through this app yet?
Am from kenya.mombasa.age of 38years.am looking for a woman to marry.a divorced or widow.plz.am serious.